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Hey it's Me Vanessa Ask me anything..Ive been through alot and so I can help with advice!Love Ya'll
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all of my best friends have boyfriends and theyre always so busy with them that i get left out of everything. theyve stopped being such good friends we dont really talk much and when i do they dont listen. its really stressful and i dunno im not jealous of them im happy they have someone but shouldnt they still care about me? they dont know what its like to be in my situation and when i try to explain it to them they just shut me out. what do i do?
Hey, I understand how you feel my 3 bestfriends did that to me a lil while ago. Anyway you should try seeing if you, your friends, and there boyfriends can hangout together. That way they can spend time with both you and their boyfriends. If that doesnt work try joining some other friends for lunch some that dont have boyfriends all over them maybe you could haangout with other peopple Until you get your own boyfriend, but remeber when you get a boyfriend how it felt when you where left out and try not to leave the new friends out.
Good Luck!
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Vanessa
My best friend spends WAY too much time with her bf and whenever I try to tell her she gets mad and calls me selfish. She does EVERYTHING with him now and I think she likes him more than me. What can I do?
Hey, this exact thing happened to me, just explain to her that you respect her having a dedicated relationship with her boyfriend and everything lol, but you feel like your losing her as a friend and you dont want that to happen. If she gets mad at you then maybe try to suggest that all three of you hang out(as a group):) that way you can all three spend time together and no1 will get jealous or mad.