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OK so I have a situation here. I have 2 friends. One used to be really nice and used to treat me and another friend equally, but now she seems to only like the other person and not me. She almost got me in serious trouble once,she dosen't hang out with me any more and it's irritating! I Want to have them both be my frinds again but I dont know what to say! I really dont know what I'm going to do when the weekend is over, so I would appreciate any help. Thank You! (link)
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You're friend actually has just simply changed, but maybe not in a good way. You should try to talk this through with your friend that has changed, but make sure not to blame it on your other friend. Remember to listen to what she has to say, and don't get all worked up at her for nothing. Listen to her reasoning, and make sure she listens to yours. Make sure to let her know you miss her, and let her know you hope to reconnect your frienship with her. Or you could always talk to both friends which is probably the better choice. But be careful not to blame them for anything. Remind them both of all the good memories you guys have shared, and ask them,mostly the one who changed, what has happened? I would prefer this more though because it's good to release your feelings to both friends, and not just one. This should make you guys have a stronger realationship than ever before. We hope everything works out:)))
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should i believe my bestfriend or my friend? because my friend said that my best friend was talking crap about my freiend and my best friend said she was not talking about her so who do i believe?
from california,13 ,female
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Well, it all depends. It's all about who's more loal and trustworthy. The one you've know for longer or has never lied to you is the one that you should trust. So I think that would be your best friend, but who knows it could be just your friend. But your friend might be jealous, of your best friend so she might be lying to replace her. I think it would be best though, to keep both of your friends, and not loose one of them. So try to invite both of them over,a nd talk to them both, and how much youc care about them, and how you wish you guys could all get throught this, and leave it behind. If they both still hate each other, and are still uo to it, try to leave them alone for awhile for them to realize how small the problem, and how big they made it. They should eventually come back, and apologize, but if they don't that means they probably don't care that your friendship with them is dissaperaing. That means they were never probably serious about your friendship witht them, but if you don't want to give up on them, then you can try tallking to them both again, or pick a side which I wouldn't recommend, bcause that maks everything worse.
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so im a sophomore. this year i have been good friends with this guy. i have one calss with him and ive known him before this year but this year we actually talk, well we used to talk everyday all the time, then our seats were moved and i relized that i liked him more than a friend. after class he will wait for me and we will walk to his locker which is down the hall, we dont talk a whole lot outside of that class. well i invited him to a church event but he couldnt make it, i wrote my number in his planner. but he hasnt texted me and its been 2 nights. my friends thinks that he is flirting with me when we walk out of calss together but i cant tell since we are friends. and does that mean that he doesnt like me since he hasnt texted me? also what are other flirting signs? (link)
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we understand your situation and the answer is yes he might just like you too. Guys tend to be scared of getting sensitive and getting commited into a relationship. So he might just be scared of the fact that he's found someone he's really liked, so try to call him or text him oonce and a while. If he never admits that he likes you though after a while, then you need to take the first step and tell him how you feel. Hope everything turns out well, which I know it will:)
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