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Hey Im Jrose!! Im from Detroit MI where there's lots of people out there who need advice an I'm hee 2 give it to you now. I may b only 15 but know alot more than most people think. I can give you answer on just about anything. Not only that I will give you an honest answer because I've been through almost everything. I give the bes advice on love, relationships, life as a teen, friends, and family problems because its happens to all of us and I know that I can give the best advice there is to give. So if you have a question feel free 2 ask cause im waiting to here them!!

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E-mail: liljesselilrose@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Detroit, MI
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 15
Member Since: October 20, 2007
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Last Update: October 23, 2007
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I have a lot of friends, I would usually consider myself content. I like all my friends, but feel most comfortable in my little "group" of maybe 10 or so people who I think are closer. But sometimes I feel like if I left, no one would be really bothered by it. I don't feel particularly liked, and I feel extremely self-conscious when I am faced with either the choice of trying to finally talk to people I know, but don't actually have acquaintance-ships with, or just hanging out by myself. When I finally feel like I'm accepted (become part of an actual group, made guy friends, and then made friends with the most popular girl in school) there is someone who doesn't know who I am and doesn't care. Sometimes I just feel like throwing up or something because no matter how hard I try there is always something not right. Sometimes when I make friends with the "it" girl, I think that being friends with her will assure me friendships with her friends, but it never does. I like to be liked and when I'm not and put out of my comfort-zone, I feel like the little kid who's picked on and disliked. I thought that dressing nice and being nice and looking pretty and being smart would just give me a ticket into anywhere, but it doesn't. I feel like everyone is making this more difficult for me than it is for everyone else. I just feel sick and I don't know what to do. Sorry if this is long. Thanks in advance.

I personally think that being smart and looking nice can gt u anywhere but at the same time you can't try and be someone that you're not to get people to like you. U don't have to be liked by everyone t feel important. Plus you shouldn't want to hang out with the "it" girls especially if you're being forced to be someone different that you. Boys these days like girls who are different and who don't always follow the crowd. It is good to make new friends and stuff but doing that shouldn't make you feel out of your comfort zone. So just be yourself to the fullest and its up to them of whether they like it or not.

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