Hi ya'll! I'm IC (no, I'm not going to tell my real name) and I moved to Texas when I was 6. I like giving advice and hope I can give YOU some advice too!
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I have a friend that drinks and she is only 16. I try to stop her but she just laughs and hands me a beer. How can I tell her that what he is doing is wrong? She finds all these places to drink without being caught! Please help! (link)
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You need to talk to her and tell her that if she keeps drinking, she'll be wasted. If she drinks and tries to get you to drink, why waste your time with this "friend"? You're just bringing yourself down with trying to stop your friend. If you truly love her with all your heart, you'll need to tell an adult. They'll stop the problem.... hopefully.
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i feel like all my friends are drifting away and all i have left is the guy im sleeping with that is causing my friends to drift away and one best friend that lives about 2hours away. i need friends here and i need the friends i have to come back. im probably going to stop sleeping w/ my guy friend because people always find out about us and it causes drama. i need something to do especially with my closest friend that lives here that's going to bring us closer together. we used to be like sisters and now we're holding together by strings. don't tell me to get new friends. these people are all i have left, they're my life. (link)
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Maybe they are trying to tell you something, like the guy is the wrong person for you. Maybe they're trying to get you to learn a lesson. Like maybe the guy is cheating on you and they don't want to hurt you by telling you straight in your face.Ask your friend what's up and maybe they'll tell you what's happening. In my opinion, the guy has something to do with your friend problem.
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So, I have a bestfriend like, we're together ALL the time i mean i love her to death i really do but she has this boyfriend that shes had since 8th grade and he plays her soooo bad! hes cheated on her so many times like i wouldn't be surprised if it was over 30 times seriously, and it makes me sick but I try to get her away from him but she just wont. I've tried talking to her and doing everything I can to help her out but it just doesn't help anything. What do you think i can do to get her away from him? (link)
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You can't do anything. You need to let her learn her lesson. Let her fall and then help her get back up. Tell her that you really tried. Say that he wasn't for her, he didn't care about her the way she cared about him.
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I have this "friend" and she is totally annoying. She calls me, talks to me all the time, and is really obsessed with this fugly guy Tyler. Well I think she knows we (me and my bff) don't like her, but i also feel bad because NOBODY DOES!!! What can i do without hurting her feelings? %( (link)
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Well, me and my friend used to have this problem; but we were in 1st Grade then. You should just say: "Hey, I really think you're a good person and I don't to make you feel bad or anything but.... we're not the same people. I'm sure that someone can relate to you in this world, but that person isn't me. Don't worry, there are billions of other people."
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