Hey evryone! My name's Stefana and I love giving advice and helping people!!! You can just ask me any question you have about love, friendships, and family problems...and I'll do my best to give you the best advice I can!!!!!!
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E-mail: stefana3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: August 10, 2007
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next year all my freinds are going to do sports and I'm not. My best freind said it was going to be hard to keep our friendship going since I wasnt on a sports team. She also said i should meet new freinds ,but i dont want knew freinds I want my old ones. (link)
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You should still be friends even if they're doing sports and you're not! It doesn't matter...I think that, that was really mean of her to say that it's gonna be hard to keep the friendship going! Just try talking to your friends. Tell them that you still wanna be friends! Try doing some other activity, that you enjoy..if sports isn't your thing...maybe you'll even make new friends at whatever you decide to join!:D
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so theres this guy who lives next to me and we talk all the time and he said i was pretty and he always trys to impress me but idk if he likes me. what do you think? (link)
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I think he could like you, by what you said here...maybe you should try just getting to know him better and see where things go from there.
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okay my boyfriend broke up with me and i cried a lot, i was really hurt and then when i told my friend about what happened she was really shocked and sad and then she keep asking me if i was okay and she gave me a a lot of tight hugs and she said call me if you need anything and when we were chatting she sended me a couple of RnB love song that relates to me and also she send me a card online saying feel better and cheer up and she told me shes gonna buy me a chocolate when ill see her soon and after that she came to my house and bought me a chocolate and gave me a hugs what do you think about my friend?
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WOW! She's a really great friend! Wish I had a friend like that...although I still don't know why you'd ask this when it's obvious that she's so nice, but I guess you just wanted to hear other peoples opinion about her...
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Ok so me and my bf of 4months had our first fight a few days ago and part of it was about me not talking to his friends when we're hanging out with them. Im really shy and i just find it hard to talk to people i dont know that well. So if i dont talk to his friends they end up thinking i hate them but i dont. it just takes me a while to open up to people. So my question is how do i start conversations with these people and get to know them better, like join in conversations when i dont know what or who their talking about.
I just dont know what to say to them.
Love, Jess (link)
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~Always ask open ended questions(the question isn't answered with just yes or no)
~You could try giving compliments, to get on their good side..lol..everyone loves being complimented!
~If you don't know what or who they're talking about..ask them! That way you'll seem interested in their conversation and they'll know you wanna join in the convo
~If you know what they like to do(fav hobbies)..ask them about that...
*Remember: The first convo is always the hardest...also, you might wanna try talking to your bf and telling him that you don't hate his friends, you're just a shy person!
~Good Luck!
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