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Hey Guys!!! Well...I am 14 Years old and I live in Redlands, California. I have alot of things going on in my life right now that I'm sure you guys do too!!! I really like helping people, and I've helped some of my friends out of situations that are pretty tough, and I am a very good listener. I also like to read alot, so It's ok to write me looooooong questions...It's all good with me. Well, I love you guys and I hope that I am a help to you!!! ByeSsSsSsSsSs!!!
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One of my best friends used to have this "thing" with this guy. They seemed perfect for each other. But he stopped talking to her and pretty much dumped her, even though they weren't dating. She still has really strong feelings for him and I was there for her throughout the entire time. Now, I'm beginning to like this guy, and well he likes me too. My friend suspects something is up and I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt her in any way. But I think I really like this guy, and he really seems into me too, but I know my friend would be devastated if I started dating him. Like I said I don't know what to do. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Do I tell her that I like him or not? What do I do about this guy? Do I pursue a relationship or what? I really need some advice! Please help!

*Confused*

I think that it would be safe to tell her, but you need to find out how she feels about all of this before ANYTHING happenes between you and this guy. You just need to decide who is more important...this guy, or your friend. And just because you might not be able to go out with this guy DOESN'T mean that you have to stop being friends with him. And who knows...maybe your friend will have no problem with you likeing him...just remember that talking to your friend FIRST is VERY important!!! Good Luck!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*

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