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My name is
Taylor
hollister && abecrombie is love
My friends are way better than your, & thats just gunnu be how it is no offense
i love it hot & sunny
& hate cold & snowy days
smile, no matter how you feel
I'm pretty easy to get along with
Drama
is lame, get over it
i like walking with no place to go
yea, me & my friends are crazy & act immature
but with no doubt i bet we have more fun than
YOU

i HATE vegetables
i hate being on the fone
YEA, i sing in the SHOWER
i tried to fly once, yea it didnt work out to great
yea, i am the most random person you`ll meet, get over it
yea i will admit, i got the crap beatin outta me by a door
but you know whut i think its funny
im in total and unconditnal love with...
starbucks
yea i love tanning
liars are dumb, and are scared to tell the truth
hopelessly romantic
i've Never Been On A Real Date Before
I'll forever love a guy who spoils me
Ripped Jeans Are Love
Sweet Talkers Suck, cuz I Fall For It
My Dreams Are So Unrealistic They Upset Me
I've Never Had A Boyfriend On Valentine's Day
i bite my finger nails when im - worried -scared-nervous
i love the rain
i`d DIE without music
anymore questions IM me on DoLlxFaCe22
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
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Member Since: November 1, 2005
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Last Update: January 2, 2006
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Hi. Ok heres my situation. I have been friends with these 2 guys (that are brothers) since i was born(im a girl)...their parents have always been friends with my parents and so we have known each other for ever. we all would hang out a lot when we were little when our families got together all the time and now (im 17...the guys are 17 and 16) we are all busy and i only see them maybe 2 or 3 times a year. I have always thought of them as like best friends...then like almost a year ago i think...me and the 17 yr old were sitting on the couch and he was laying all over me and in my lap and holding my hand and like running his hands all over my legs and kissing me and stuff and like really flirting and all this stuff...so since then i have had a crush on him...but i have seen them 2 times since then and he like barely looks at me anymore...like things are weird between us...i have his brothers number because we talk sometimes and i could easily get his number...i have it i just dont have it in my phone or anything...but i dont want things to be weird between us anymore...i wish we could go back to like being good friends and not have any tension. me and his brother are still normal and good friends when we see each other. What should i do...i dont think i should talk about it with him because it would just make things akward i guess but i dont see them that often so i dont have to many chances to do anything...
i just want it to go back to normal when we do see each other...what should i do... (link)
Tell him whatever has happined in the past doesnt effect the future and whatever happined you just wanna forget about nd` i belive things will go back to normal
{xOo] ToOtlEs TayLor


15/f- Its really long but if you would take the time, I would really really appreciate your help.

Okay I have 2 best friends, shelby and christa. Well shelby recently got a boyfriend, and all of a sudden started acting very distant to me and christa. She never hung out with us anymore, and barely talked to us at school. She was trying to change herself to fit in with her bf's friends. Well Then she started telling people that me and christa abandoned her and that we were mad and jealous that she has a bf. We never said anything to her. So then we heard it from more people, so we asked her about it, if she said it. She denied it, and got mad at us and walked away. We let it go. Then my friend found a note from her to her bf that said " I dont know what is up with HER (meaning me) lately. If she doesnt knock it off quick, Im not gonna talk to her at all at homecoming because I dont want my night to be ruined by HER". So then I called her and asked her about it. Now Im not a mean person at all. Im too nice at times. Well I must have said "Now Im not trying to attack you or be mean, I just wanna talk" fifteen times, and she was like "Oh I know" She made up some lame excuse, and I was like whatever, so then we talked for about an hour like normal about our day and whatnot. The next morning she came up to Christa and I and hugged us to make sure we were okay. Well afterschool a friend came up and said "shelby said you called her and yelled and bitched her out for an hour and then she cried after you got off the phone" I was so angry, and I was tempted just to not talk to her anymore, but I gave it one more chance. I went up to her before lunch at her locker and asked her why she was saying that, and that she knew very well it wasnt true. I was being wayy too nice. She wouldnt look at me, she kept her eyes on her locker and was like "yeah... whatever.. sure" while I was talking, so then she was like "IM DONE okay? IM DONE WITH YOU" and just kept saying it, and I walked off, and then she went and told her bf that it was the otherway around. So then she comes up to me like 1 or 2 days later and says I was being a bitch the otherday, I dont know what was up. Blah. And I just said yeah I agree and walked away, then she wrote me a 3 page note and the first page was an apology finally. Im the forgive and forget type, but I dont really wanna forgive exactly, but she sits at our lunch table now, but everyone is like "why are you talking to her, she doesnt deserve your time"

Should I forgive her after all she did?
Am I right about this whole thing?
Should I talk to her still?
What should I do?

I would greatly appreciate any help anyone can give (link)
Okeyy. this sounds exactly like me and my ex friend.. i decided to stop being her friends and hang out with a different group with your other friends.. it doesnt matter. i learned the "dorkiery"(SP) at my school are nicer than the popular girls.. thats just at my school.. but anyways, i say hang out with a different group for awhile and maybe see whats going on a month later or something
ToOtleS [xOo] Taylor




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