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Q: Okayy so I have this friend, I'll call him A. So, me and A have known eachother since like 3rd or 4th grade. We've always been good friends! I don't know if he's ever liked me or not..but, we get along very good. I think he's pretty cool and everything and I wouldn't mind dating him. He broke up with his girlfriend and told me that he was looking for a new one. He told me some girl asked him out..but he doesn't like her and told her he isn't looking for one..but then he told me he actually is he just didn't want to tell her that. I told him I never had a boyfriend before..and he said "you can get a boyfriend". So, we talked about that for a little while..and then we stopped and changed the subject. Basically, everytime we talk..we never run out of things to talk about, we alwayas laugh at eachothers jokes, and we're 100% comfortable with eachother. My question is..do you think I have a chance or something? I know that's stupid to ask but I just want some advice! Please and thankyou. :)
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Hmmm...Well, it sounds to me that A has a thing for you. The context of that conversation is foreshadowing that maybe he "wouldn't mind dating you, either" (; It's great that you are very good friends, you have known each other for a while, and that you are completely comfortable with each other. Since you're the only one he told that he WAS looking for a girlfriend, it sounds as if he's hoping you will be the one to fill that space. My advice to you would be GO FOR IT, GIRL! And if you're nervous, just do what he does. Play the "secret" game, I'm sure you'll get somewhere!
Good luck (:
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Q: My best friend jazmine dated this guy named tyson and she fell in love with him, he broke up with her and got together with a girl named kayla. Jazmine so isnt over it and is constantly trying to make him jealous and is even losing weight to try and get him back. She's goig to extremes and i dont know what to say to her to make her stop! She wont listen to me and the guy is a total jerk! She's not moving on how can i help her?
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Well, from any perspective, this could turn out to be a serious problem. It's not good at all that your friend is trying to lose weight...As i'm sure you know it is a sign of a possible diagnosis of Anorexia Nervousa. The absolute BEST thing that you can do for your friend (regardless of how many times she rejects) is to TALK TO A TRUSTED ADULT IMMMEDIATELY! Make sure it is either a parent or guardian of your friend, and explain to them what is going on. It may not seem as bad as i'm making it sound, but trust me, things could get very difficult for your friend. It could also turn into a life-threatening situation. So please, act now, as soon as you can before things go any further, if you want to help your friend.
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Q: well im new at school and there is a good amount of kids in my grade..well im doing pretty good meeting girls but i really want tome good guy friends but it always seems harder to approach guys than girls. so my question..how should i approach guys and talk to them and introduc myself? i do i get guys to start talking to me at school? i want to be popular (in the good way like im friends with everyone) and usually i have lots of friends and talk to lots of people so im trying to get like that in my new school. so any tips and tricks on how to talk to guys would be so helpful!! thank you so much :)
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Well, there's one thing I feel I must tell you: Do NOT change for anyone. I mean, don't do something someone else does just to be their friend. There are plenty of people who will like you for who you are, and those are the people you should stick with, otherwise, it could get you into trouble. Now, I, personally have a few good guy friends- and i met most of them in class! It's good to just start up a conversation with someone you see. Of course not in the weird random stalker way, but in a friendly way...I mean, that's what you want isn't it? =] Maybe you'll get lucky and that cute guy sitting in front of you in math class will accidently drop his pencil right next to your foot...That's when you pick it up for him. And while you're at it, exchange a smile, or maybe a "hey, that shirt looks really good on you." Guys can be like girls sometimes, in the way that they feel good to the occasional compliment- just as women do. You never know...maybe he likes your shoes! =]
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Hey there everyone =]
My name's Elliott, and I'm here to answer all of your burning questions! And since I'm getting to know you, I think it'd be a good idea to let you know a bit about me. I'm just a 16-year-old girl, and a Junior in high school. I'd say with my story, I have some experience in answering many of high school's most common questions(See my Favorite Categories). Generally, I love to play the guitar and the piano. Writing, whether it be lyrics, short stories
or poetry, well, I've always had a passion
for it =] I'm News Editor for my high school paper, and Poetry Co-Editor for the magazine- So if you have any English questions, be sure I'm the one you ask! Haha (: If there's anything else you're curious to know, then just go ahead and ask! I won't bite, i promise [= Ask for my cell number too if you want, I'll share.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Pennsylvania Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 18, 2008 Answers: 34 Last Update: October 28, 2009 Visitors: 3544
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