Okay everyone, my actual name isn't Maggie. In fact, it isn't even remotely close to the name Maggie but I use it as sort of an "alter ego".
I do this so that you can ask me any questions and not be worried that I'm actually your sister's boyfriend's best friend.
I am studying to be a therapist so go ahead and ask all the questions you want to. Topic doesn't matter: love, sex, friendship, passion, work, school, family. Anything goes here on Go Ask Maggie.
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Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Member Since: October 14, 2005
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My best friends parents just told her that they are getting a divorce. I don't know what to say to her. I basically said "I am soooo sorry" and "this should be happening to you" I also toldh er tha ti am always there for her she can call me anytime, it doesn't matter if its 12 midnight, and she can come over whenever, she doesn't hav eto call or nothin' i don't know what else to say. HELP!!!! (link)
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You can't really say anything else. It's honestly not up to you to give her answers, its just up to you to be supportive. Be a good friend and don't treat her any differently because of what she's going through. If she brings the topic up all you can really do is to be understanding to the best of your abilities.
Maggs&hearts
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Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so
1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me
2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)
3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.
4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.
5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.
6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.
7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that
8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party
9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.
10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)
11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..
12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know
13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.
WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?
thnx 4 your help (link)
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Trust me, girlie, either Albery really really likes you, or he's gay.
;-)
Maggs
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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male. (link)
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Hi male,
Look, my personal experience is one of the same type of situation. You response depends on the following question:
Do you think she is "the one" for life or "the one" for highschool?
For Life: If you really think that she could be the one that you will marry, wait on telling her. It's too dangerous right now and you've still got time. Wait until end of sophmore year/beginning of junior year. You want to make sure that your timing is apprpriate. Then again, if she's really the one that you think she is, it will work itself out no matter what kind of timing you use.
For Highschool: Talk to her now! Carpe Diem! Seize the day! You only live once and if you think that she wil help to fufill and enrich your highschool years then by all means, tell her how you feel.
Maggie
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