about

Howdy!! I'm NEELY!! You can call me Neelz for short!! =] I am a very sweet girl that has been through.. quite A LOT! I do give good advice and I would be so freaking happy if you ask me for some advice!! I ADORE my friends!! Can't live without them. I may be 14 but I have been through a lot of things in life maybe not "ALL" of them but some! I love to give advice its my specialty and dont hesitate to ask me something because I will do all I can to answer you!

advice

okay well im having a back-to-school party. what are some good ideas of decorations, games, stuff like that, with out being like an all-out-theme-party like i had when i was 7??

I think a REALLY fun back-to-school party would be a pool party, if no pool then some fun in the back yard! Get a bunch of cold drinks and play music and maybe a barbeque!! A fun activity would be water baloons or volleyball or basketball, etc!!! Just be creative!! If you don't want something outside then maybe rent a place and have a school dance or skating party.

Anything you can think of will be fun for anyone, just no clowns and all that kid stuff haha.

Hope I helped ya!

Much love && sunshine!
♥Neelz

[view]

Ever since summer started, it seems that all i do is sit around all day. I always call my friends, and ask if they want to hang out, but there always busy. I know for a fact, that some of my friends parents, do not like me, but its not fair that they keep my best friends from seeing me.
For instance, everytime i call my friend kirstie, she's always busy. I'll ask if she wants to hang out, but she says, "oh, my parents are already doing stuff with me today" or, "I already promised my mom i would hang out with her." And, she's always complaing about this girl, that is kinda...the emo one in our group, but it seems like she hangs out with her more than me. It really hurts, because she always says were best friends, but arn't best friends supossed to hang out?

I just really want to know, if maybe i should try to push more to hang out, or give up, or...i dont know, it just stinks cause i'm always alone.

Please help!

Ps. sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Melissa~

Don't worry, if your friends are too busy then go out and meet some new people!! The more people you know the more people you hang out with!! I suggest going to ball games, movies, church, parks, malls, anywhere there are people!! Just go out there and have fun! Good luck!! Much love && sunshine!

Neely

[view]

i am a 16 year guy. i was wondering if you could tell me what i need to do when i'm grind dancing with a girl. thanks

Okay well its quite simple really. The way we do it here is usually the guy is behind the girl and he will grab her waist and be close to each other and basically touch each other while dancing. Mostly its just fast dancing with touching each others parts. Haha simple as that, just dance and have fun!! Hope I helped you out! Much love && sunshine!
Neely ♥

[view]

WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!!

Well!! Now thats not very nice!! How could you consider her your friend if you would say such a mean thing about her?? She obviously is proud of herself and she doesn't care what people think, she can have fun just like every other girl, just a little pudgy. Dont say anything to her and I suggest you respect her! If thats what she wants to do then let her do it!! Later!
Much love && sunshine
Neelz ♥

[view]

(f/15)
well my best friend and i have been friends for like 2 1/2 years. we usually get along suprisingly well and never fight, although we did get into some arguments and there are just little things she does that annoy me . i've tried to talk to her about it but she is frustratingly stubborn and wont see anything from anyone elses side but her own. she also makes it blantantly clear about the little things i do that annoy her and try to stop, but cant quite since they just happen involuntary. in the past week or so shes been acting weird and telling me differnet things, such as pointing out if i have acne on my face...which obviously isnt a huge self esteem booster. she told me i had gained weight since last WEEK, that i havet oo much fat on my stomach (which i know i dont because im 5"7 and only 115 lbs) and that i have too skinny of arms and man hands. i try talking to her about this but she freaks out and says it was a joke. it wasnt a joke...and if it was why didnt she laugh? why didnt i laugh? she didnt say it in an easygoing voice she said it matter of fact and i dont know what to do because i want to remain friends with her but the fact that she wont listen to me is really irritating.
i need to know what i should do.

thanks for anyone that answers :)

Okay, yeah I have a friend sort of like this. I think that maybe the only reason why she is saying this stuff to you is because she is possibly offended by you and JEALOUS! Thats what girls do, we can be VICIOUS!

What you need to do is possibly sit down with her and tell her how you feel about what she is saying about you. Tell her you don't appreciate it, and its not the best friend thing to do! Tell her that if she keeps on doing this your just not going to hang out with her anymore. Scare her into stopping it. I hope I helped you out!! MUCH LOVE! Neelz

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker