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The names Maeghan. Yeap, I spell it weird.I'll admit it; I'm young, inexpirenced, and I make mistakes pretty much everyday. But I learn quickly and try to not to put myself in the same positions the next time around.
Though, I'm a terrible speller and that will never change.
I'm single and actually very happy with it. I've gained independance and a sense of being my own person because of being single and getting out of a bad relationship.
Ask my about anything & I'll try to help as much as I can! :)
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i have been friends with "sarah" since i was a little kid (we're both 15 now). recently sarah wanted to make a myspace. i practically made the whole thing for her since i am better with computers. i posted her first comment saying "heyy sarah whats up?". i looked at her myspace a couple days later it was gone. i assume she deleted it because sarah is really popular in school, and well im not. i think that she did not want to be associated with me because im a geek. i was really upset by this and havent talked to her in a while, and i dont if i want to. should i forgive her for being 2-faced? and if i should, should i tell her i know what she did?
She could have easily just made a mistake, I'd do what everyone has already said (Posting another one) and see what happens. But if she did do it because she thinks shes "popular" whynot give her a little bit of "nerd" revenge & screw around with her myspace? (nah that's not a good thing to do .. but if I was in that situation I would deffinatly do that lol) If she does say that, you should deffinatly talk to her about it & how if shes going to be two faced .. your not going to help her with anything on myspace & that she should get a life and stop being so full of it. - Meg
Im 13/female and in school, im not really one of the popular people and i really want to be. What are some things i can do to get them to accepted me???
Basically be perfect. Always. You can never break down or look bad simply because "You're having a bad day" No. There's no such thing. You have to be thin, with a good amount of money and the courage to do things you really don't want to. Basically, you'll spend most of your time trying to please them and then the other half wondering why they're so judgemental/full of bullshit about each other. Its a funny world ain't it, how some people can seem so perfect yet they're more screwed up that you? Don't follow them simply because they're "Popular," late in life when your 26 with a good job you won't care what you wore or what you listened to, but more about the good friends that you didn't need to act/dress a certain way to please. Stay unique.
one of my best guy friends constantly smokes. he is only about 13 or 14, which really makes me sad for him. he said he quit, but he hasn't. i really care about him and am concerned, i've tried getting rid of the cigarette while he was using it, and trying to explain to him that i care, but he is not emotional at all (he doesn't cry over relationships, and not even when his brother died). i would appreciate suggestions on how to get him to quit completely. thanks!
Werid enough, smoking makes you feel good. Its not just to look cool or because you're addicted to it. Smoking can be his way of dealing with issues he has (death of his brother maybe?) Its very addictive, and trying to get him just to quit instanty wont work. You need to just let him go his own way. Yes, its hard and I've seen friends of mine choose cigarettes and other drugs trying to fit in and deal with stress. Maybe its what made him start thats holding him back from stopping? Ask him about it. Sorry if I wasnt any help, but its his decision :/ - Meg