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ok well im 14 and me and my friend have been best friends pretty much sense we were like 3 or 4 and like ever sense i can remember she has always been kind of like jelious when ever i get a new realllyy good friend she like freaks out. like right now in 7th grade i became best friends with my friend bailey, and now she has like been oh my gosh is bailey taking my spot? am i just like some annoyance that thinks shes your best friend? and i don't know its like really bothering me and i keep telling her no one can take her place, but like today i told her i wasn\'t gonna ride the bus home because my boyfriend was staying after school and hes been sick so i wnted to like hang out with him, and she left me a voice mail saying ok what is up with you, i mean if bailey is your new best friend then maybe i should just get some one to act like my bew best friend and i dont know she is just like totally going over board and i don\'t know what to do, like the more she does this the more i am getting annoyed with her and not wanting to hang out with her, but how do i tell her to stop? please help me with this guys!!! thanks! (link)
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sometimes, friends come 2 weird conclusions dat sum1 could juss come out of nowhere and take their spot! =/ what you need 2 do isz have a long talk wid your friend and tell her dat NO MATTER WHAT, you`ll always be der 4 her and no1 could EVER take her spot (make shure she feelsz confident about what your saying)! tell her how you feel about her as a friend and show her dat you care about her feelings. explain 2 her dat your new friend is sum1 you`re close wit, but she wont replace her as a friend. and if you have this talk in person, it might be a little better cause den you can give her a bigg hugg for comfort =] hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck!!) =D
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uhm, last year i was popular. well not the most popular group in school but my clique was 2nd most popular..
this year i dont know what happened! when i walk by in the hall no one even notices me. last year people were always screaming my name. i miss it =/
i wanna be more popular again but nobody will let me in their group. dont tell me just to talk to them, i need more then that. its not that easy (link)
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yeah popularity kan seem like a bigg issue theze daysz..if you really want 2 be popular, try being on a good page wid every1..sometimes,like you said, talkin 2 people iznt dat easy. what you might wanna consider tryin is makin your OWN group..individually it might seem hard to talk 2 people, but if you`re in a group, it might be a lil easier! hope i helpedd!!
sincerely,
chikita
(good luck) =]
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I need help.badly.Im a female age 15 from New Jersey and im in highschool.I knew this boy for about a year and a half.I've always liked him and still do.We have been best friends and still are.I need advice see this is why.We both have the same classes and we are always together.We make each other laugh and everything.One day we were walking home from school and we went to my friends pool party.It was really big.When i changed into my bathing suit he said that i looked nice and gave me a kiss in the cheek and then dronk his juice.well then when we went inside aftre the pool party cuz some people slept over we were going to play truth or dare.My best friend knew i liked him so she did it on purpose.she dared him to kiss me.i was shocked.obviously he was playing but when he gave me that kiss it felt like i was in heaven.He is the most popular and hottest guy in school and im the second most popular and hottest girl in school(says the yearbook)and sorry if it sounds conceited but im not).Now i feel shy to sit next to him or talk to him.what should i do.Now he looks at me like in a way he never looked at me before.He flirts with me and holds my hand and i dont know what to do.does he like me.does he not like me.should i flirt back should i not.What should i do.PLEASE HELP ME.I NEED ADVICE.ASAP. (link)
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if you like him, go for it!! =] yes it seems that he likes you alot..flirt back, see if it will work out between you two..take a chance =] hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
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