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my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that. (link)
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I was in the EXACT situation. You need to tell her before things start to get worse. I tried to act like nothing was wrong when I was in your situation then they started going out and it was just a big mess. I had to tell her when I was high because that was the only time I knew I would be able to tell her. I don't recommend doing that tho. You should just be straight forward about things. She's not being a good best friend if she's going after your ex. Hope all goes well
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I met a new friend in my class well lets say we just started talking as a friend cause we only used to have those small talk.But I was kind of able to read her like her personality, shes shy,has trust issues,advice giver,sympathetic and introvert, bottles up her feelings and write it out instead and likes art she thought it was kinda scary how I knew I was able to read her and we started talking more because of that, well the thing is how can I open her up more? She has friends but shes scared to get close to people because in the past she had a best friend that was like her sister but her mom told her to not talk to her anymore and she was really really sad about it and since then she has trust issues and she said she doesn’t trust people in general I cant figure this out what kind of trust issues is this? Is she afraid that people will leave her once she gets close to them? (link)
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She is probably afraid of becoming attatched and having to go through the same thing all over again. Plenty of girls have trust issues. Your friend doesn't want to let anyone have the ability to hurt her. The best way to get her to open up to you is by showing her you can be trusted. Tell her a little bit about yourself. Invite her somewhere where you guys will be able to have a nice conversation.
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i have a friend and shes friendly and a nice girl, but the thing is something is about her is distant and reserved. She seems to block people in a way but i really dont know what it is, but sometimes its hard for me to approach her does she have trust issues? (link)
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I am exactly like your friend. She does have trust issues. She's probably been hurt in the past. Instead of letting there be a possibility of getting hurt or abandoned, she pushes everyone away. Try taking a day away from everybody and hang out with her. Just the two of you. Maybe if you open up to her she'll open up aswell. Be patient and give her time to get to know you better. Good Luck [:
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