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hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????
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Your parents wont trust you not to drink again because you will. However they should be happy that you got drunk with your best friend in her house rather than with maybe some guys in their house... And another good thing (from your parents point of view) is that your friends dad told your dad so they know they can trust him and therefor they should let you see your best friend!!!!!
They have to let you make mistakes and then prove you wont do the same mistake again otherwise they will never know.
Good luck! This should work... ;-) x
I have a friend but the thing is i don't like her as a friend any more because she is very mean and controling. she still thinks we're friends even though i haven't talked to her in months. she called me and asked me to go to her birthday party how do i tell her that i don't want to go without hurting her feelings? also it is a sleep over thing and i said i could sleep over because of something the next day which is true but she still wants me to go for a few hours the first day! please help i don't want to hurt her feelings!!
Sometimes it hurts more if you don't say anything... If you wait too long and she finds out maybe from someone else she is going to be more hurt. Just tell her in a forward honest way, she might still be hurt but as I said not to tell hurts more!!
Good luck! x