hey..let me start off by saying that my name is kaykay(as the friends call me) and i am your average 14 year old girl. i love to play sports, but conflicts with my family and friends often get in the way-thats why i have a page here..to let go. ill be in need of tons of advice (so be ready!), but ill also be willing to put a lot of effort into answering some of your questions as well..bye for now!!
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Age: 14
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
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im afraid to tell you that kids these days (teens in particular) wont go running up to some person asking for them to hang out..not in this century.
since people have probably already made their groups and 'cliques', they wont really be looking for anybody else..you have to grab their attention by popping up a question - maybe you have something in common with the other kid..the best advice i can give you is to get involed!!
join a sport, club, or some other great activity and i am sure you will find someone (whether it be your other half or just an 'aquatance') i sure met a ton of cool kids my age that way..i made myself a part of something along with many others.
if you dont know how to start..try to find out what you like to do, and stick to those hobbies!! this may sound corny, but wear a cute new shirt youve made on your sewing machine..and maybe youlll attract someone wholl ask you where you got it...(soon to find out that you magically crafted it yourself)(that way you may find some other kids that like to design clothing too)..
most of all though-be proud of who you are and create yourself to however it may fit your personality..but DO NOT fake just to try and impress someone..youll get tired of acting like someone youre not, so just remember to act natural..i hope you can use my advice-and good luck at making those friends!!!
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