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ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this!
I think if you are already thinking about what might happen if you break up then you really shouldn’t get your self into it, you shouldn’t risk your friendship on something you are so unsure of. I am living proof that friends can date. I was friends with a guy for about a year and then we started going out. We have been dating for 5 years now. It is great we can never go back to exactly they way we were but this is a million time better. It is like having a friend, a best friend, and a boyfriend all wrapped up in one. If you can seriously see your self breaking up already then I would recommend just leave thing where they are because as much as you both say you could always go back to be just friends that is impossible. He will know you inside out and you will know him. If you are willing to risk it all then DO IT. I feel the best relationships start as friends you just have to get rid of that safe-zone of a friendship and leap into dating. It will be scary and your other friends really won’t make kit any easier at all but it you do it right it can be a blast.
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Be and my best friend are soo tight..we do EVERYTHING together. and whats even better is that our boyfriends are best friends too. The 4 of us do everything together! but now whenever im with my friend when her bf isn't around thats all she talks about is him even on the phone! it gets on my nerves soo bad! should i say somthing to her or just let her talk about him?
It’ll pass. I Promise. It is just a phase you guys are going through. She talks about him so much because he is a super big part of her life. She probably talks about you to him, even though it may not seem like it. Be careful that you aren’t jealous of her talking about him all the time because that can ruin a friendship by making her choose boyfriend or best friend. Just kinda wait it out soon you will find out it may not be as bad as it seems. When something bothers a person that is all they can focus on. Like your bother blaring the stereo when you are trying to sleep, even if he turns it down that is all you notice, but if you ignore it you will fall asleep sooner or later. Focus on the other stuff she talks about and steer your conversations away from him. I would not recommend asking her to stop constantly bringing him up because he may be offended or be willing to fight about him. This may seem dumb, but she will find something else new and exciting to talk about soon.
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