Hey guys! i love giving advice to my friends and i thought that this woulod help me even more. well ill tell you a little about myself im 14 have gone through tough relationships love cheer and love hanging out wiht friends...shopping....swimming...going on dates...and partys
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Location: california
Age: 14
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I have tons of friends, quite a few good friends, and 9 best friends. but I dont have one or two BEST friends. It kinda bugs me because most of my 9 best friends all have one or two BEST friends. i love all my friends to death, but something seems to be missing.
also, i am so different than my other friends and i really dont fit in with any of them. we are going into high school in the fall and i am SO nervous that they will split into a couple different groups and i'll be left to wander.
I also have trust issues i guess you could say. I have such a hard time trusting my friends. i feel like i cant talk to them about hard stuff because i'm supposed to be the strong one, that looks out for them. I end up keeping everything bottled up cuz i have no one to talk to. it's just so difficult because i have so many great friends, but i always feel like there is never anyone there for me.
Any advice on any of these friend issues would be appreciated thanks.
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well dont try to change to fit in with them. if there you friends find one really really good one who you can trust i have a friend like that named danielle she is sucha sweethart and if you find one like her then your set. hope i helped *Kelley*
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my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?
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well this is probably a very sensitive subject but i am thinking that you should talk to her and say "you know i am your friend and friends care about each other and if caring means to solve your anorexia problem you should do that if you dont it could end up in something really bad like death. so i always want to have you around so please tell someone it doesnt have to be a parent or a teacher but just someone that can help." i hope i helped, *Kelley*
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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!
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ok well i would say talk to your brother and ask him about smoking and stuff. just dont let your brother start. if it get serious where your brother comes home smelling like smoke talk to your parents. hope i helped. *Kelley*
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Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
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omg this is so freaky because the same exact situiation happened to me. its very confusing and its a hard point but what happened for me is that i said something to her and she mellowed out it really sucks having to go through this its a horrible feelign inside. my advice to try to find a new group of friends to hang out with and let your others cool down a little bit and as for your guy friend i think you should have a one on one convo with him and talk it over like o i really feel like so and so is sorta taking my place and i dont feel wanted anymore i feel like i dont have friends....ect....what i did to get out of the situation was join the cheer team its a competitive one where you can make new friends and its awesome because you can just get away from school life so thats my advice if you dont like cheerleading then try a different sport that your so called friends are in o ya i just thought of somehting find out what that girls said about you and tell me because if she said something totally unbelieveable like you made out with a girl or whatever something like that just denyi it and go on and if its something like o you said that so and so is ugly or whatever tell that person that you supposivly said it about that you would never say that about thenm and if they knew you then they would know that you would never say that sorta of thing. i really hope it works out for you and my advice works wirte me back about this i really owuld like to know more x's and o's *Kelley*
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I'm having a party tonight and i dont know what games we should play. Does anyone have any suggetions. Please no dirty suggestions b/c my parents will be home!!! (link)
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ok well i think if your parents dont supervise you shouldplay the classics like spin the bottle and stuff like that also thegumie worm game i played it and its when you take a gummie work in your moth and a guy has to get it with out using hands its fun
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Online I was talking to a close friend of mine about guys. He said theres alot of guys who would like to date me except they see me more of a friend than someone to go out with. I drop hints to the guys I like but they just dont get it it since their clueless lol. What could I do to make myself seem datable but not act like a slut at the same time? thanks , I'll rate. (link)
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well you wont be catigorized a slut for this..you should drop them pretty obvious hint that anyone would get like have you seen the new movie? if he has just start a convo if not be like o me either i really want to go see it and my family doesnt either does my friends..do you see what im saying make it obnvious but not to obvious. and yes guys can be very clueless and if they dont get the hint you make the first move and maybe try to to act more dateable then like a buddy for them or even this is kinda drastic but throw a boy/girl party and play games like spin the bottle and the gummie worm game. i went to a party like that and then all the boys were like shes such a good kisser and then i got asked out by the guy i had a crush on it all worked out and i hope it works for you too. hope i helped *Kelley*
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