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My name is Christina. I love to help people out&give advice. :]

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There's this guy from my clique who likes to irritate me. But anyway, he makes fun of everyone. I'm rather close to him as in like I can talk to him. Both of us belong to the same clique and I guess i can talk to him pretty well as compared to the rest in my clique.

Recently, he kept criticising bout me. Whenever he knows a guy is interested in me, he'd be like "What?! He has really bad taste". There's this other guy who was interested in me and he happens to know that guy as well. So he was telling me "Ya, anyway, he has really bad taste. His favourite girls from the FHM magazine are all not nice."

And he likes to put me down, saying for eg "everyone in our class is quite pretty.. except for ___(my name)"

And when i just randomly told him that someone said i look like one of the girls from a pop group,(the girl is a tomboy) he'd say "ya , people say that you look like the ugly lesbian part of her right?"

And I'd be like OK FINE! just what the hell is your problem. Can someone tell me just what the heck is he doing cos he's really pissing me off a lot. And it's not like he's so handsome ok! He's not handsome at all! And I'll be like yeah what right do you have to criticise people's appearance.

He actuallyy might like you. Chances are if he teases you about your looks.. he probably actually think's you're pretty. Especially if you tell him that a certain guy likes you - that probably got him jealous and he was just making fun of you. Hope I helpedd. :]

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ok so i'm 13 and everytime i start to make friends with a guy i end up likeing him and i like having guy friends cause i dont know it's different but how can i have guy friends without likeing them???? is this normal ??

Yes it's normal, don't worry about it. If you get close to a guy & end up being good friends at 13, than you probably will end up liking them. Don't worryyy about it. :]

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Hi!I have a friend. Well, i like this guy, but then i told my friend about this guy and now she likes him to. The guy asked my best friend out. I was crying for like almost an hour. She told me that she still wanted to be friends and every thing but i dont know. It hurts really bad and the only problem i have is should i still be her friend or no? Sould i tell her that i hate that she is going out with the person that i really like? i dont know what to do because i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.

I think that I'd be crushed if this happened.. I can't believe she said yes to him even though she kneww you liked him, even before she did. I would talk to her and tell her that you're extremely hurt... that's the only thing that I think would make things better. Just sit down and have a longg talk with her. =]

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