askBurnetteBaby13579
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: my bestfriend looks at me when she spends the night over at my house in a weird way...like when we are gettin ready to go to bed i catch her lookin at me when im changin i really feel uncomfortable and i want her to stop but i dont know how to bring it up and i dont want to start a huge fight and i still want to be friends but im just not like that....what should i do?
Some girls are just curious about other girls bodies. As you get to this age, girls compare themselves. You could change in the bathroom or in a different room. That would solve things. Don't worry about it too much. I'm sure she'll stop.
~MoRtY~

Q: Me and my best friend have been best friends for a while, but now that i got a boyfriend, she is acting all weird, and trying to prove herself to me. She told me she didnt like me going out with someone, and i dont know what to tell her, or what to do, because i dont want to break up with my boyfriend, so what do i do to make her ok w/ me again???
Tell your Bff that you still love her the same, you just have a boyfriend. Don't tell her this, but she might be jealous that you have a BF (if she's single.) Invite her over to your house and do a lot of things with her. Maybe if you and your BF go to a movie, invite your friend to go. Maybe she'll become friends with your BF and you can all hang out. Remember to tell ehr that even though you have a boyfriend, she's still your best friend and you love her. (sisterly of course, lol)
~MoRtY~

Q: im really shy when im around people i dont know very well, how can i get out of that phase?
Don't worry, a lot of people have this. It's nothing too bad, you are just naturally shy. I think all you can do is be friendly around new people and just work your way up there. You'll eventually grow out of it, but for now just be friendly and act like it's no big deal.
~MoRtY~

Q: any reccomendations? I like nature sort of screen names and I want one that will last forever
LavenderBreeze
SummerSunshine0984
SecretSprings
TropicalSun
RainforestMist
TennisAngel
LavenderDaisy(or any other flower)
That's all I can think of
~MoRtY~

Q: I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?
Maybe she's telling you she doesn't want to be friends anymore. I know EXACTLY how you feel. My BFF hangs out with other people now, and she's changed a lot. I miss her, but sometimes you just need to move on. If yout alk to her that might help. You could invtite her over some time so you can work things out. If you don't want to let go then don't. You could just focus on your other friends and let her do what she wants. But in the meantime you can still talk and hang out.

~MoRtY~

Q: I wanna take a friend on vacation with me in a month, but I'm really scared about what my other friends will say. I mean, I can't just not tell them!
I know the feeling. You just don't want to hurt your friends. But they need to understand that you can't take everybody, uit's too much of a hastle.
~MoRtY~

Q: if you have ever moved out of state or town...how did u tell your friends? plez help!
Just tell her (or him) Say "I'm moving, and I'm going to miss you so much. But I promise I'll write, and call." It's easy, but hurtful. Good luck, and keep your promise. Keep in touch, maybe visit in the summer.
~MoRtY~

Q: i have this friend. shes nothing like me, and follows me around everywhere. i've tried to deal with it, but its really annoying. ive told her several times how i felt , but she still follows me and stuff. i guess i kinda feel sorry for her. only im tired of it. should i move on?
Well, in my opinion, I think your friend looks to you as a role model. She maybe thinks you're really cool. I had a friend who I followed everywhere, because I thought she was sooooo cool. I think your friend wants to be like you (kind of like a little sister, only you two are friends) I wouldn't be too mad or annoyed. She just really likes you, and I'm sorry, but if she doesn't stop following you, you may just have to deal with it and let her. Good luck,
~MoRtY~

Q: My bestfriend and I... dont really get along... we can't be around eachother for more then 10 minutes or we'll start fighting.. n i have 2 other bestfriends (all four of us are bestfriends lol) and they think it gets annoying but me and my friend are trying to work it out but we cant.. n i just wanna kno if u think this is a good friendship.. so tell me wat u think.. thanx a bunch!
Well, it doesn't sound like a good friendship. But you know what? Some friendships like that end up really close, and some don't. it depends on how you feel about each other. Maybe you guys could be friends, but not "BEST" friends. Or take a break. I know how it feels, it's like you wanna stay with them and work it out, but it isn't worth it. Just do what you think is right and go with the flow. Sometimes you just have to accept people for who they are, even if it really annoys you.
~MoRtY~

bio
BurnetteBaby13579
That's me when I was younger

I'm such a dork. I spelled "Brunette" Burnette. Oopsies!!! Oh well

If you rate me a 1 2 3 0r 4 please tell me why so I can improve in that area.


Hey guyz, my name is Morgan. My nickname is Morty, I don't know why, my cousin made it up, lol. I'm 13 years old and you don't have to be shy to ask anything. I'll answer everything you send. I'll give you the best advice I can. Love you all
Morty

Info
Website:
E-mail:
Gender:
Female

Location:
Grafton

Occupation:
Jr. High JLMS

Age:
13

Member Since:
January 8, 2005

Answers:
59

Last Update:
February 6, 2005

Visitors:
6323

Main Categories:





Favorite Columnists








layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker