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lol. lets see. im 13. almost 14. i love to dance!!!!! im adorable, loveable, a SWEETHeART, a CUTIE-PIE.
ive had boyfriends, fights, anorexic friends, suicidal friends, annoying brothers, messed up computers, failed school, and handled it all HORIABLY!!!
but ive learned from my mistakes.
and now i can advise you NOT to mess up the same way that I DID!! lol
xoxoxoxo
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13/f. I was in the popular preppy group but now I am in the gothic. I think I am still bffs with my friend in the popular group. If I ask her anything around that or that she says oh ya why wouldn’t we be I love you or bffs still. We used to be bffs but then it was off and on because we didn’t do the same sports. So I got tired of thinking if tomorrow wed be bffs or not. my gothic friends are always there for me and im very rough and they are to so i can just be myself and also they dont theyd never tell a parent if someone hurts them. my old preppy friends would always just sit there and laugh at stuff that made no sense and if someone hurts them they go tell it drove me fuckin crazy. they never understood what i went through or my music or me cussing. my new gothic friends I love them and they and he are the only ones that understand me. i miss the preppy popular people i dono why? i was never as close with them. ive always liked black but never wore that much because it was 'not perky' i never was perky thay tried to change me. i miss them. but i love being with my gothic friends their my bffs. im myself around them and alot happier and everything. but my parents dont like them. and is trying to keep me away im tired of sneaking and she nos and shes always saying what wrong with my friends!!! im just like them so whats the matter. were not the extreme gothic kids. we go to a fucked up catholic school no peircings or tattoos or hair coloring. theyre always checking US its driving me fucking crazy. think if you were all for expression and you could never express urself at all or even say gothic at school. their always watching us were always doing something wrong. ive always been the quiet shy girl but now im breakin out. whats wrong with me?
which group should i go with?
whats wrong with my school?
is it illegal for no expression just for us?
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stick with your gothic friends!! they seem like real, true,, friends!! they will always be there for you. i know the other group sounds apealing, but anywhere that dosent let you be yourself is just not right. your smart, you know which group lets you be yourself. tell your mom that you are a big girl, you have good judgement and know how to pick friends. tell her that you havent done anything to prove that you dont know how to pick friends. tell your mom that these girls allow you to be yourself. i wish you the best of luck.
xo
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Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at???? (link)
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sweetie, you need to be straight up with him. dont keep being friends with him. you dont need him in your life. you have your boyfriend! just dont answer his calls, block him on IM, completely remove him from your life. he needs to move on.
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ok so my bfs dog has to be like put to sleep and hes pretty upset like i mean i would be to i love my dog and i woul dbe devastated if i had to do that to my dog so shoul di maybe leave him alone for a while or should i try to talk 2 him about it?? help meeeeeeeeeeee (link)
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tell him that if he wants to talk, your there for him. tell him that you understand how difficult it is, and that if he needs a sholder to cry on, then your there. hell probably want to talk to you more then anybody about it, so you should be supportave.
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