| TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey | | Name: | Zoe Bateman | | Birthday: | March 2nd, 1990 | | Birthplace: | Southwest General, Middleburg Heights, Ohio | | Current Location: | Berea, Ohio | | Eye Color: | Brown | | Hair Color: | Brown/ dyed burgundy | | Right Handed or Left Handed: | Right | | Your Heritage: | Lebanese, Slovak, Russian, Native American, Wales, and American | | The Shoes You Wore Today: | Etnies | | Your Weakness: | My neck being bit (ehe) | | Your Fears: | Spiders, and losing my girlfriend Brittney | | Your Perfect Pizza: | Little sauce, lots of cheese, pepperoni's | | Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: | Pass this year at school | | Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: | O.M.G. | | Thoughts First Waking Up: | Brittney | | Your Best Physical Feature: | Umm, I dont know, ask Brittney and other people, they'll tell you. | | Your Bedtime: | Anytime I want it to be | | Your Most Missed Memory: | When I went and visited Brittney for a week | | Pepsi or Coke: | Coke | | MacDonalds or Burger King: | I dont know... | | Single or Group Dates: | Single | | Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: | I dont know... | | Chocolate or Vanilla: | Chocolate | | Cappuccino or Coffee: | Cappuccino | | Do you Smoke: | No | | Do you Swear: | Yes | | Do you Sing: | Yes | | Do you Shower Daily: | Yes | | Have you Been in Love: | Yes | | Do you want to go to College: | Yes | | Do you want to get Married: | Yes | | Do you belive in yourself: | Sometimes | | Do you get Motion Sickness: | No | | Do you think you are Attractive: | No | | Are you a Health Freak: | I dont know... | | Do you get along with your Parents: | Sometimes | | Do you like Thunderstorms: | Yes | | Do you play an Instrument: | Yes, the keyboard | | In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: | No | | In the past month have you Smoked: | No | | In the past month have you been on Drugs: | No | | In the past month have you gone on a Date: | No | | In the past month have you gone to a Mall: | Yes | | In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: | Not a whole box... | | In the past month have you eaten Sushi: | Yes | | In the past month have you been on Stage: | No | | In the past month have you been Dumped: | No | | In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: | No | | In the past month have you Stolen Anything: | Yes | | Ever been Drunk: | Yes | | Ever been called a Tease: | Yes | | Ever been Beaten up: | No | | Ever Shoplifted: | Yes | | How do you want to Die: | peacefully, unless I'm really upset and in a suicidal, then it has to be slow and painful | | What do you want to be when you Grow Up: | Anesthesiologist | | What country would you most like to Visit: | Germany and or France | | In a Boy/Girl.. | | Favourite Eye Color: | Doesnt matter (girls) | | Favourite Hair Color: | Brown/Blonde (girls) | | Short or Long Hair: | Doesnt matter (girls) | | Height: | Not too tall and not too short (girls) | | Weight: | 100-160 (girls) | | Best Clothing Style: | I dont care | | Number of Drugs I have taken: | NONE | | Number of CDs I own: | I donk know | | Number of Piercings: | I dont know | | Number of Tattoos: | None | | Number of things in my Past I Regret: | 2 |
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this is long. i rate high for good advice ;D
okay, i've known my best friend for about 4 1/2 years. were extremely close. i can tell her anything and shes the same way. were practically sisters. im a year older than her.
shes been going out with her boyfriend for about a year (they had their anniv. last weekend) , but theyre not that close at all. they only saw eachother twice over the summer, and each for like maybe an hour at the most. and i was there too. they dont act like bf & gf at all. they never go out, hang out, or even call eachother. yet, they act like their sooo in love. hes cheated on her like 3 times, and shes known about it. he even liked me before. she doesnt realize that she can do sooo much better than him. he always talks to her about getting married and stuff .. ( theyre in EIGHTH grade ) and i know she doesnt want that. shes not ready for a serious relationship. she still has years ahead of her to date and everything else. also, she wont stand up to him. if he does something to make her mad she wont say a thing about it. and after it gets bad enough, i will. im not the type of person to sit back and let people run over me, or other people. which causes fights, because he thinks its not my place to give him advice on his relationship, which i agree that its not. but if shes not going to do anything about it and shes not happy with him, then its just making her feel worse. i honestly think the reason she wont break up with him is because shes afraid of change. she'll feel empty or something when she knows shes not 'dating' him. also, practically all of his friends are girls, and he'll invite them to hang out before he will her. they've only been on one date without any of her or his friends. and they've barely kissed. and he doesnt even save her a seat at lunch, or talk to her between classes, or anything. hes so mean to all of her friends too, me in particular. once, he told her that if they got married and i came over that he would shoot me and tell the police i was breaking in. immature, i know. then he had the nerve to ask her if she'd divorce him after that. why would she want to be with him after that? hes really controlling. i want the best for her, and i know this isnt it. she knows i dont like their relationship, and no one else does either. i dont know why they stay together.. (link)
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You should sit her down and have a talk, and tell her that there's someone better for her out there. And since she's only in the eighth grade, she has plenty of time before she needs to think about marriage. You also need to tell her that she shouldnt be controled by him. She's her own person and doesnt need to be treated like a dog. And if shes afraid of not having someone else, then that's okay, she just doesnt need to be with that guy, and maybe she needs a break from dating all together. And you know what, I bet there is a guy at school who likes her, and will treat her better than her so called boyfriend does. You never know. And that dude sounds like a total ass. Well I hope this helped some.
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I am Male 13.
I have liked this girl now for 5 years.We are the best friends you could ever hope for. But she doesn,t like me any more than just being friends. Now for a while I was fine with it, I just kept thinking I dont like her anymore and it worked,m for a while. I went to camp over the summer and she met,What she called a really hot boy. This made me realize I still like her. Now when ever i am around her I hurt. Now heres the question i dont know if i should quit being her friend or talk to her which is really hard when on the subject of me and her. Plus it doesn,t help that i feel stupid for feeling this way, should I feel stupid. (link)
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Whatever you do, don't stop being her friend. I know it might hurt, but why lose her as a friend, it's better than nothing. But maybe you should talk to her. Let her know how you feel and everything. Oh and don't feel stupid, there's no reason to feel stupid. And I definantly know how you feel, I sort of went through the same thing. Keep being friends, maybe her feelings will change and realize that she has a great guy to be with once you talk to her about it. But also, you're best friends, there is a chance that if you do go out with her you might break up, that could ruin your friendship.
I hope this helps you some.
*~Zoe~*
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