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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck. (link)
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You need to talk to her as soon as possible. I've been in a similar situation. My ex broke up with me and then I found out from a guy friend that my ex and my best friend had been going out since the very next day he broke up with me. It hurt sooooo bad and I felt so awful. But we talked about it and everything is great. So think about how she feels and tell her exactly how you feel about it. Then all three of you should talk and try to work something out.
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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends? (link)
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Make an effort to make friends. The only way to make a friend is to be a friend!
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