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Ive had this friend for over a year and I consider her one of my best friends. She brings out the best person in me and I love that about her. She sleeps at my house every weekend and we talk and snapchat all the time. We have never been annoyed with each other and never got into a fight or anything. We have different taste in men which even makes our friendship even better. I suffer from depression and anxiety and she knows this but she didn't know me when I was in my manic stage. Basically. I was talking to this guy for about a month, texting, snapchatting, facetiming and I was really into him and he seemed into me. We hung out one day and we basically did everything besides have sex. After we hung out he said it was okay and my best friend came over his house and the three of us were hanging out. He basically fell in love with her. It really upset my feelings. He asked me for her number when we both left his house and I gave it to him kinda testing him. The past 2 weeks he has been flat out ignoring me and hitting up my best friend. She told me not to worry shes not interested in him and hes an asshole whatever. One night she sent me a snapchat of her at a bar and I said who are you with? And she answered with one of our girlfriends so I was like oh ok. I fell asleep and woke up an hour later from snapchats from HER and the GUY I liked together. Like that litterarly hurt me so much. She knows how I feel about him. She lied to me and went to hang out with him. I flipped out on her telling her my feelings are extremely hurt and I felt like my boyfriend cheated on me. I still am upset. She feels bad but like I went in my drepression of self harming, negative thoughts, cried all day and night, barely slept, didn't eat, and had little energy and felt so fatigue. I am feeling better now but im still extremely hurt. I don't know what to do. If she thinks this is the love of her life do I tell her to keep talking to him even though it hurts me so much like whats wrong with me for no one to like me? I am just really hurt. (link)
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know how feel, but forgive her for your sanity, and talk to her about it. and if thatt doesnt work may want stop being friends, since she knew what she was doing.
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I'm a Sophomore in college and I feel like it's taking me way too long to graduate. I was told I can graduate in 3 years, but every semester it seems like it's taking longer and longer. I'm now looking at 4-5 years and I'm only in my second year and feeling burnt out. It's not because I'm failing classes or anything, it's all the extra courses I have to take that have nothing to do with my degree. Now I'm being told that I'm going to need my Masters on top of my bachelors to get anywhere (Healthcare Management).
I really want to travel to other countries teaching English, but I don't know how realistic that is.
I'm also tired of dating, none of the boys in my age range take life seriously and other than one relationship that lasted 3 years, the rest of my relationships have ended in 6 months or less. Sometimes I wish there was a mail order bride type service for American women because I think life would just be much easier if I could find an older gentleman to marry me who's financially well off. I really wouldn't mind being a housewife, I love to cook and take care of a home and have lots of hobbies I could keep myself busy with.
I also don't have any friends at college so I spend all my time alone. I joined a sorority, but everybody was already in cliques so I'm going to drop at the end of the semester and join some clubs next semester to see if that helps.
I just feel super lost though. I have summer vacation coming up in 4 weeks so I have some time to figure it out, but I don't even know where to start. I'm thinking about getting my TEFL over the summer (to teach English), but I really just want to know what I'm doing with my life...
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well on guys understand heartache well. the right one will come and treat you like a queen. and on friends im sorry know can try talking someone new by just saying hi and talk small talk. your plan is a good one, and is possible with right attitude, like have, and perserverence and all things are possible with God. go unto him for comfort, help, guidance, and so much more he sent his only son to die on the cross for our sins who rose again three days later. who ever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. know Jesus Christ can be the bestest friend ever and God as well especially when feel alone.i go to him for everything and have had struggles, yes, but have grown and found what want in life by them.
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Hello, this is kind of an awkward question. So me and my friend are in the 9th grade and we were doing homework in my room and she fell asleep on the bed. But her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk and they happened to be right on my notebook. I didn't want to wake her up so I just kept working with her feet in my face lol, but her toes kept wiggling a lot so I got distracted and started playing around with them.
for example I pushed her toes a few times and they would start wiggling by themselves. Then I would hold her toes still to make them stop wiggling. so I did this whenever I wanted her toes to start wiggling lol. Then I turned on the radio to see what happens, and when I pushed her toes they start wiggling to the beat of the song. I thought it was really cute, so I made them follow my voice instructions too, for example I whispered "wiggle faster" while her toes were wiggling, and suddenly they started wiggling faster. and when I whispered "point your toes", she makes the tippy-toes like a ballet dancer. I think she was dreaming about dancing coz we both like to dance :P
Is it a normal thing for me to think her feet are cute, and to play with them this way? I haven't told her about this yet, coz I think it might sound awkward telling her that I kept her toes wiggling like nonstop while she was asleep. Thanx (link)
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yeah totally, just wouldnt tell her tho he may think its weird, and have nice day
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Ive talked about these two girls before but now i really have to get this off of my chest. So i met these two girls named amber and kayla on my schools facebook page. Amber and kayla didnt know each other prior to the page as well. So in the summer amber and i would literally talk every single day until the day we met. Kayla and i didnt really talk at all so i understand why she doesnt talk to me as much either. But basically ever since i met amber in person im even lucky if a get a response back from her on facebook now. Yeah i understand the school year is busy but its not that busy, facebook lets you know when the last time a person has been online and Amber gets on everyday. Anyways i tried making plans with kayla and amber and they would always come up with excuses like "i have an assignment or im in class" which i believe but now i think theyre just trying to politely cut me off because Kayla and amber have hung out 3 times probably more (ive only seen them together 3 times on ambers snapchat) so i confronted Amber one time saying "wow thanks for the invite guys" and amber said "it was last minute and not planned and she asked if i was free the day after" but i didnt respond because Amber was probably asking me to hangout out of pity. Then after that amber stopped showing who she was with on snapchat but little does she know is i have kayla on snapchat too so when amber doesnt post kayla posts. So im ranting right now because on friday kayla and amber hungout the whole freaking day (didn't tell me) and then went to a basketball game. I would confront them but whats the point? If you have read up to here and follow what ive been saying it would be lovely if you could give me advice on this situation. Also with kayla and amber if i dont message them i wont hear from them at all. Im always the one to message them first. When i see Amber in person ( she has a class before me) im usually the one that goes up to her and says hi (except for thursday the only reason she said hi to me was because we were walking past each other and gave each other eye contact). When it was ambers birthday i messaged her happy birthday and said hopefully me, her and kayla will be able to find a way to hangout with each other. Amber replied and said " thank you girl and im praying for that day to come" that day couldve literally came on friday if they just freaking invited me. Then when kayla posted on ambers wall happy birthday then amber said " omg ily so much" which pissed me off cause that means that theyre closer than i thought. Ive been trying to be friends with them and they just brush me off like wtf. You might be wondering why im not really talking about kayla but its because i dont see her at all on campus, ive only seen her once (in september) and me and her dont really have anything to talk about. Lastly before you say " how about making your own plans with them instead of expecting them to invite you" i did multiple times and they would come up with excuses which were believable at first but clearly theyre not that busy if they have time to hangout with each other. Kayla i mostly believe cause judging from her snapchats she rarely leaves her dorm, amber on the other hand....anyways info on us are we are first year university students (link)
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i am sorry they did this to you. sounds like a loss cuase. best find better friends and maturely confront amber if she still dont give answer end the friendship. put away reminders and know nothing you did, its her being ugly. a real friend would include you and make an effort. relationships are two way streak not one.
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Hey there.
I am nearly 14, and I have pretty decent friends at school. My group is pretty closely knitted and I always liked it.
My friends do invite me to events, and I've been to their houses and stuff a couple of times. But this weekend, I found out that they threw a party without me. I don't know what I've done wrong, and I don't know what to think of it. I thought they were my friends.
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hmm sounds liek you need to talk to them about and get to bottom of why you were not invited if they are good friends. maybe they were only allowed a certain number of friends over. hope this helps and ty heal know nothing you did wrong.
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