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I need your help. I am really close to this girl and we knew each other for a long time. We are best friends and she's like a sister to me. The problem is that she is starting to get on my nerves. She is always talking about guys all the time and she's all obssesed with them. It really annoys me because she doesn't know the guy and she is inlove with him! It's so annoying! And if the guy flirts with someone she gets really mad to that girl and I think the guy she likes can't get a girl anymore because all the girls know that if they flirt with him, she will get mad at her! She will also be really sad because of that. Don't tell me to just talk to my friend because I'm sure that if I talked to her about this, she will be so mad at me and our friendship will be over! Please help me! Should I just stop being friends with her because she just gets on my nerves. And she gets mad really fast!

Either way confront her this girl may take it pretty hard. Guys were made for girls, but i understand where you're coming from when you want help with your friend. I know it's hard to see her get so attached to one guy that she prob. hardley even knows,but that's life. You may get her to back off a little by wanting to spend more time with her. Yeah guys are gonna be around but they'll come and go. Try talking about a certain guy to her and see how it makes her feel. Then give an example of another girl you might both know and say she's all into guys and it's getting annoying. See what advice she has to give to you and then switch it around and put that advice with her case. I would advise you to talk to her but I'd hate for you to lose a friendship too. You may end up putting y'alls friendship on a break for awhile, but y'all will come back around and she'll see she missed you and hopefully get over all the guys she was once into... maybe not for good but well enough that it won't get to be so nerve racking. If neither of these approaches work and you still want to be as close as yall are then it might just be that you'll have to deal with it until maybe one day she can hear herself and see how she gets so hooked on guys and cure her habits on her own. :)

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well my friends and i have been talking about this....we feel as if were 2nd in her life. she just got a bf and she already spends 24/7 with him. she never wants to hang out with us anymore. she thinks her bf will get mad if hang out with her.shes doing everything he says and not what she wants to do.it really pisses us off that we are no longer important to her anymore.. like we've always been there for her and now she is like stabbing us in the back and we're gettin tired of it. What can we do to change this? Thanks for your help

Whoa y'all are in 2nd?! Well to start off with it's usually the golden rule for girls to make friendships come first and guys should never wreck anything between best friends!!! Talk to her, remind her of the good times y'all had before this guy came along. At the same time allow her to feel as if she can still obtain this boyfriend but don't let him speak for her! Point out that she only does what he says and she can never do for herself..don't let the guy get between yall even if she isn't showing any signs of letting him go. Express to her that yall feel as if yall are 2nd in her life than 1st or at least closer to her than yall had been before. If yall even want to take the step of talking to her boyfriend it may add to a resolution as well. Tell him that this is yall friend and even though he may show alot of compassion towards her yall want to show the same love for her as well but yall cant since he's always with her and yall can never spend quality friend time together. I really hope yall can get back to the top!!! Sooner or later she'll miss yall too!!!!

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This chick wonts to go to the movies and kiss me for her Chirstmas present. And God knows I dont like her. I like somone else. What should I do?

Hey! Aww all she wants for Christmas is you! Well if you don't like her then let her know that. Tell her you're willing to go to the movies (if you are) but you don't want to lead her on and think she's gonna get a kiss out of it! You just need to lay down the law with her and tell her whats up okay? Tell her you're after another girl and you value y'alls friendship but you don't want it to be anything more than just that. Whatever you do...do NOT do anything you'll regret and don't let her push you into anything you don't feel comfortable doing! Hope I've helped! :)

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Is April my Superstar?

hahahahaha Good one Jeremy!! funny stuff funny stuff!! superstar super model...which ever seems the same to me! ;) 2 fingers like a playa!!

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