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Okay, i went over to my friends house this one night and this guy that i liked was over there. The thing is that he had a girlfriend. Well, we were on his AIM and his g/f told me to call her, next thing i know i am on the phone with her and she broke up with her boyfriend. About 5 minuted later she was with another guy. I felt so bad for this other guy! So, me and this other guy started to flirt next thing i know we were holding hands and stuff. i felt really bad for doing this when my best friend just broke up with this guy but all that was going through my head was that she is with another guy so why should she care.
well, the girl who's house i was at told this other girl everything that me and this guy were doing and my BEST FRIEND got pissed and called me a whore and slut. it was such a suprise i couldn't believe it! she has another friend and she cheats on her boyfriends and she doesn't get mad at her. the next day of school i was dreading! but first thing she did was walk up to me and we talked for like 5 minutes and she wasn't mad at me anymore...the thing is that i was mad at her for saying all of those nasty things about me. and you can ask anyone at my school i am not a whore or slut.
i still hold this against her but at the same time i'm nice to her, should i still be mad or what?
signed,
confused (link)
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Dear confused,
I don't think you should be mad at her because she apoligized. But I mean if she were ever to do it again, (call you a slut and stuff) I would just tell her you don't want her to call you that. Because I mean she should be anyway right? She's your best friend! What's with that? Hope I Helped :)
xOSamOx
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OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time. (link)
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I had a friend of mine's mom pass away a few weeks ago. And my choir teacher told me that no matter what you have to try not to cry. Because he needs your shoulder to cry on, not you to cry on his. And what you thought was an awesome idea! I would so write him a letter about how much he means to you. Most of all though, let him know you care. Let him know that you're always going to be there for him no matter what the problem is. He'll thank you for that.
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My best friend stuffs and everyone knows it! She went from flat, from a 32 C in Except she doesn't know that everyone knows, how do I tell her but not make her mad at me?
SiGnEd,
CoNfuSeD FriEnD (link)
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Dear Confused Friend,
I would tell your friend that people think that she stuffs! Say you don't but just tell her that you over heard people talking about it or something. And just tell her that if she does that she might want to stop, just incase she does because peopel call her fake. If she yells at you then she's not a true friend. Because she would be thanking you for telling her people could tell.
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this girl i know is really buggin me! she used to be my best friend but shes not anymore. she did a lot of mean stuff to me so im not close with her anymore but my other friends are. I try telling them to be careful around her cus i dont want what happened to me to happen to them but they dont listen. what should i do??? (link)
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My advice to you is to tell them flat out what she did to you and how bad you felt and that they should listen to you if they don't want the same to happen to them. And that you care about them and what happens to them so you're just giving them a heads up
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