Hmm, about myself. Well, I'm sixteen years young and for my young age I've been through quite a lot. I can relate to many different people. Giving advice is one of three things I'm very good at. I'm a Junior in high school and i love being with people. I'm the drum major at my high school for marching band, and a starter on our varsity softball team. I hope to be a psychologist when I'm older, so I really enjoy giving advice. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help :)
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I have this guy friend. He used to be one of my best friends, and then we dated. It didn't go so well and we broke up. We stopped talking for almost, maybe even, a year. Now we are talking again, but it's not like it used to be and now whenever I visit, he's either working or if he is home, he seems to not want to hang out with me. I don't know if it's because he feels awkward or what and I don't know how to ask him. What should I do? (link)
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Well, next time you visit him try to hang out with him again. If he blows you off, or if it seems he doesn't want to hang out with you, you just have to come out and ask him if there's something wrong, did you do something to make him mad, something like that. Don't give up on your friend. Give it a shot.
Good luck, i hope it works out :)
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i feel like i'm a horrible friend to my best friend. we have a long distance friendship since i live in new york and she lives in california. whenever we talk on the phone, i always end up saying negative things to her like, "oh i'm not really your best friend," or "you don't really miss me"...stuff like that..most of the time i don't mean it and i know it's not true, but i dont know why i keep saying stupid things like that. i feel like it's because i'm jealous of her other friend who lives in cali with her. i feel like they're much closer now and that her other friend is her best friend and not me. i also think it’s because sometimes she says things that hurt me also, but she doesn’t realize it or thinks im being too sensitive about it, so i feel like i have to get even by trying to hurt her also. i also feel like i always need reassurance that we'll always be friends from her because i feel like one day i might lose her. sometimes i tell her how i feel and why i act that way because she always asks "what's wrong with you?" when i do act that way. and i try to explain, but it seems like she doesn't really care or try to understand how i feel. i just feel so horrible that i always say those things, and i do apologize to her all the time and she always says it's okay and stuff. but i still feel so terrible about it and i can't seem to just stop myself from saying things like that. it didn’t used to be like this before. i don’t know why things just changed all of a sudden. i think it’s because of me though. is there anything else i can try to do?
please help, thanks so much in advance. (link)
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I know how you feel. My very best friend lives in massachusetts and i live in pennsylvania. Sometimes it gets really hard because you can't be there with them doing things that best friends do together. It gets even harder when you hear stories about them doing things with their other friends who live near them. Maybe you say these things because in your mind you don't want her to worry about you because of the distance, that you're a burden. You should write her a letter or email because sometimes reading what someone has to say can hit you more than telling someone. You should tell her that you don't mean those things in that letter and anything else you're feeling. I wrote my best friend a letter, and it really hit home. So, try it out, It may help. :)
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