Hey I'm Anjela I'm from CA livin it up...started the site so I can give some advice to people. I've been to peer counceling classes so I know how to handle the "hard" questions about mostly anything...so ask away.
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Well me and my friend are in this fight because she said her friend linsday called me a bitch and then she said a while telling me the same thing...she was the one who said it and now we are not talking. sure i wanna be friend with her but i cant be friend with her when ugh she lies to me all the time and hated me when we first met. i have know her since last year at she said she wants to talk to me but she wont...so am i supose to talk to her or what should i do? i cry every night! PLEASE HELP ME? tell me what to say to her?!!!!!! PLEASE! i will rate or anything! thanks
*Confused with my best friend* (link)
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dont talk to her...if she wont talk to you then thats her fault...dont cry over her theres nothing to cry about. find a better friend..one that doesnt lie to you or call you a bitch or hates you since the 1st day she met you.
~Anjela
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Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!
-Amanda Marie
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That's obviously not a very good best friend if she's trying to break you guys up...tell her to respect whats yours or else she'll loose a friendship over a guy that you'll still have.
~Anjela
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i have this one girl in my class that i hate but she is okay i could live with her i mean shes ok but she not the best she has gotten better so should i wait and see if she comes around and be the best she can be or should i lay off and not be her friend until she comes around i not sure so please help i am thinking of keep likeing her until she comes around but i am nit sure. (link)
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If you have doubts about being her friend especially if you think she's "annoying"..then it's probably best to not be her friend...it's not fair for her to be thinking that you like her if you don't..it depends on why you don't like her also..you need to decide what kind of friends you are..if you hang out or if you're just neutral and say hi to her when you see her. if its neutral than its really not that much of a problem.
~Anjela
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i think my best friend doesnt like me anymore its just somtimes well ok alot of times recently she seems really pissed at me and it seems like she trys to avoid me but i ono please help me out (link)
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Talking to her is the only thing you can do..if she seems resistant than you know that the friendship needs to end..nobody deserves to be treated like crap and if shes doing that then shes not a real friend.
~Anjela
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O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
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You need to let someone know...it sounds like she's serious (cuz theres some people out there that do that for attention. This isn't something you can handle by yourself..she obviously needs some kind of counceling wether it be in school or outside somewhere. She MIGHT get angry at you at first for telling someone but think of it this way..would you rather have a dead friend or an a friend who'll get angry for a short while? Believe me in the long run if she does get help..she will thank you. Do the right thing and don't let this problem just sit there.
~Anjela
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I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!! (link)
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It doesn't really sound like she would be considered a "best friend"...I would never have to pay my friends to spend the night..most ask to. You need to talk to her about it...and if she still does the samething than it's really not worth giving her your valuables...sounds like she's just using you.
~Anjela
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