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okay heres my story..what should i do?
i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!
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Chelsea...I think you should call your friend before you go and let her know how you feel, and if shes being mean about it to u on the phone like you think she doesnt really care while your talking to her on the phone then just tell her your not gonna go with her, and still go out, but with someone else. You know what I mean? Like you can call a different friend and go out with them, even if its not bowling, you can go to the movies or just hang out somewhere, or do something you guys both enjoy, but call Jerra first and explain everything to her. Hope I helped.
Amanda
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My cousin and I are really good friends, but since this new girl came into our neighborhood they've been ignoring me. So when ever she says let's get Marrisa I say I don't want to. I sorta like her but not that much. My brother told her I didn't like her. Now they've been ignoring me more than ever. Please I need advice what to do. (link)
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Well first of all tell your cousin how you feel about the new girl, and that your brother wasn't completely honest. And then also tell the new girl that moved into your new neighborhood that your brother wasnt telling the truth, and tell her that you feel like she is taking your cousin which is ur really good friend away from you. She should understand, and tell her that you dont hate her (if you dont) its just that your jealous/sad that you don't get to spend as much time with your cousin as you use to and that you just miss her.
*Amanda* Anytime you need any advice ill be glad to help...I hope my advice will help you with this situation as well :)
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Thank you so much for answering my question. You are my favorite columist so far that answeed my questions. (link)
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It was my pleasure. If you have any other questions dont hesitate to ask me :)
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Sometimes I act like a boy bc I collect cards that like all the boys in my class have. I spend allot of time trading with this boy. Sometimes I think that he likes me. Should I keep on doing cards or act like a girl girl? (link)
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First, you shouldn't Classify your self as "Acting like a boy" Theres no way to act like a boy or a girl. I think you should keep trading you cards and colletcing them and do what ever you like doing. Like alot of people say I act like a boy because I like sports and stuff and I dont like Dancing or Cheerleading or anything but I don't let them bother me because they're my interests and not theirs. So keep doing what your doing, and keep trading with the spacific boy and you will find out if he likes you by the way he acts around you.
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I don't know what to do, my friends keep pressuring me to do things I don't want to do, and they are starting to get on my nerves. What do you think I should do? (link)
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Just tell them str8 up that you dont want to do the things they are asking you, and DONT BE SCARED!! Do not do anything you do not want to do or are not confortable with doing, you are your own person and dont let people try and change who you are.
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