about


i'm ashley.
i'm pretty much a good girl :)
i care about everyone.
i have a lot of first hand knowledge with a lot of things.
my life doesn't suck, so i'm not going to sit here and say it does.
i know how fortunate i am to have a family and good friends
i have a great guy named Eric in my life right now ♥
i help EVERYONE regardless it's just the kind of person i am
i give out my AIM and MSN for a reason, so people can reach me quickly, so IM me anytime.
i'm an honest person, trust me, my mouth has gotten me in trouble PLENTY of times.
i'm a smart person and make good choices.
i screwed up alot before, but as of now, i'm an amazing person in my opinion.
i'm one of the happiest people you will ever meet.
i will cheer you up, just ask, or show you need it
i don't judge you on how you get by, the company you keep, what you do for thrills, that's your own business. and i have no room to judge you.

advice

do you think its weird to dedicated a song to my friend who is a girl? im just asking cause i want to dedicate a cheer up song to her because shes pretty much upset about her parents divorced and all
which is Keep on Keepin' by jojo and use my shoulder-jojo if u dont know the song please just look at the lyrics here:
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...
and
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...

which one do u think its better? please be serious thank you =]

Use My Shoulder is a better cheer up song :)

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my friend lets call her "S"

well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing


should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him

i understand her looking out for you, but she shouldn't have your boyfriend break up with you. i think she just might be jealous of you and him or she might just want you to herself. just tell her to back out of your love life. and ask her about it before you decide whether or not to be her friend anymore.

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heres the deal I used to be in a gruop, girl life was at its best. I was convinced though that I could get it better. Myself and Anna broke up from Abby and Hayden, the gruop was split! My first recesss with Anna was really fun. We were bff's, and i was convinced it would stay that way. The problem though is that Anna gets mad and is sortof a tomboy I know thats no reason to break up but we get in fights all the time and so a few nights ago at one of our sleepovers I thought maybe I could shoot back over to Hayden and especially ABBY!!!! I MISSED THEM!!! I asked Anna if maybe she could forgive her (she was really mad at her cus she told hayden somthin) and we could be a group again. NO. That was her straight answer. So MY QUESTION IS should I stick with my friendship with Anna were we are sorta tomboys and dont totally get along, or should I make a new frienship with abby, and transform into a GIRLY GIRL!!! Im sort of going abbys way but if anyone thinks I should stick with Anna go ahead and speak up, PLEASE HELP!!!

okay friends are impossible. you can't please everyone.

you and anna could remain friends and you could hang out with hayden and abby too. if anna is really your best friend she'll let you hangout with other people, just don't push them all hanging out again because the tension will be hard to deal with. just don't hide your friendship with them from anna. and you shouldnt have to go from who you are now to a girly girly, if abby and hayden dont accept you thats there problem :)

goodlucklovee

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Well, last year in 7th grade, my friends and I would get in fights/arguments. This year, in 8th grade, I've told myself that I wouldn't get mad over really stupid things, and I wouldn't get into very many arguments with my friends, even if they start it. Well, about 2 days ago, one of my friends, lets just call her, i don't know, how about Lisa, well anyways, Lisa just kinda stoped talking to me. I asked her if she was mad at me, and she was like "NO!!" and she sounded pretty mad. And my other friend, we'll just call her Brooke, anyways, it seems like Brooke has switch personalitys. Like, for a week she will be best friends with me, then the next week she will ignore me and just act like I don't even exsist. Oh, I forgot to say one thing. Whenever one of my friends seems mad, and I ask if they are mad at me, or if I ask them if somethings wrong, they just seem to get more mad. Sometimes I feel like my only friend is this guy that I have a really huge crush on. And in our little girl "click" it seems like everyone is pared up. Am I not a good friend?? Am i doing something wrong?? I don't know what to do. But I'm tired of being treated like a peice of crap. Thanks everyone. Much love!

your good friend for actually giving a damn about fixing this. your doing nothing wrong, unless you left things out. you just need to tell them how you feel. tell them you feel left out and want to fix things but they need to stop treating you like crap before you guys keep being firneds.

friends are the hardest people to part with but if your friends treat you like crap you shouldn't even bother, make some new friends if they dont treat you bettter.

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what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do?

girls these days. i think you should blow this girl off, i mean really, what kind of best friend talks about you, backstabs, and hooks up with your crush? that isn't a best friend. thats just a girl who is looking for trouble. you need to not be best friends with her.

A Best friend is someone who has your back, knows you well, and spends time with you. and doesnt judge you.

im sorry about your "friend"

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