hey everyone! i am 17 and a senior in highschool. i live in alabama! i am a member of clearview baptist church and i am a christian! if you have any questions about my faith, IM me and i will be glad to talk to you about what i believe... i love going to church, hanging out with friends, the computer/internet, singing, and just having fun!
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My best friend just passed away :-[. she was only 13 and she died of cystic fybrosis. i miss her soo much! we have been best friends since the day we met .. when we were 3! every night i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so much! She passed away last week. PLEASE HELP ME! what can i do to keep her with me and what can i do to make me get over the fact that im never gonna see her again!? thanks a lot .. (link)
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hey samie,
i lost a good friend from cancer when i was about 11 or 12... i know how you feel and i know that it's hard... just remember the good times you had together and that'll hopefully make you smile... be happy b/c she doesn't have to go through the pain of cystic fybrosis anymore... all you can do is keep her memories close to your heart and use this situation as a way to grow stronger!! God, your family, and your friends will help you through this... if you need anything, IM me or email me... *stay strong*
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OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time. (link)
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my dad died when i was 13, so i know how he feels... yes, it is a sensitie subject to talk to him about, but in time he will want to talk about it more, i promise... but to send him a card or a note and say how much he means to you and that you are thinking about him means alot, although you may not know what to say, just a simple way of letting him know that he is in your thoughts and prayers can say so much... *hope i helped*
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Okay, two friends Brooke and Anne. Anne likes Eddie, and Eddie likes Brooke, and Brooke and Anne and me are great freinds. Thing is, all Anne ever does is talk about Eddie, and when Brooke and Anne and Eddie are online in a little "buddy chat" Eddie will say that Anne is pretty, and funny, and then outside of the "buddychat" he will i/m (instant message) Brooke and say, "she's not pretty, She's not funny" its so horrible. Now, all Anne says is that she really likes Eddie, but Eddie likes Brooke. All the time she talks about him, and she always asks questions like, do I look okay, and do you really think he likes me? and I always say yes, but its like I have two people telling me things, one through each ear. Anyways, heres the huge part, Anne and Eddie are going to be working together this summer, as life guards. And, so Anne thinks she has a shot with him. Now, two nights ago, Eddie and Brooke went to the movies, and they made out. Anne would NEVER make out with anyone. But Brooke wont go past that. I know this is really confusing, but they both come to me about it. And Anne and her boyfriend recently broke up, so Brooke and me think thats why she likes Eddie, because its the first guy that she thought of after they broke up. At first, the first time i had heard of Eddie was through Brooke, she was going to bring him to six flags with me and My boyfriend. But now Anne likes him. and she says that he asked her out in 6th grade but she said she had to think about it. last weekend, Brooke, Anne and I went to a movie, and Eddie was there, and Brooke was very social, and was striking up and conversation, and Anne wasnt, she just said hi, and was asking me if she looked okay. So I dont know what to do any more.
Any sugestions? Brooke and I know we have to tell Anne, but we have dropped every hint, and I even told her that we think its because her and her boyfriend broke up, and that she should stop liking him. she asked me the other day what I did when i liked a guy that didnt like me back, and i said just move on, and i told her that was the story of my life, until now, i have a great boyfriend, and Brooke and Anne both wish they had a guy like him- we've been together over 15 months!- anyways, and i toled her it was pretty much the story if every other girls life too!
Help Please!
I Know you guys hate these types of questions!
Sorry, I tried to make it as least confusing as possible, but it is confusing enough to live.
Thank you guys so much in advance!!
-KeLsA-
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hey kelsa,
the best thing to do is be honest with anne... just tell her that eddie likes Brooke and not her.. sometimes the truth hurts... i don't mean to be so blunt, but sometimes you've just gotta do what you gotta do
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this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me? (link)
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having a b/f isn't as great as it looks... you think you want one, but the case is for most girls, you just end up liking the thought of having a boyfriend better than actually having one... as for being 15 and never had a b/f... don't worry, your chance will come... you will find a boy that doesn't care whether you're the prettiest girl in the world or not, he'll like you for you... so don't let it get you down that all your friends have b/f's and you don't... it'll be fine *hope i helped* :)
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Today at lunch we had these chicken nuggets in a gravy kinda sauce.It was really messy and I went to eat one and my so called friend shoved it in my mouth.It was all over my face and I got so pissed off at her.I kept saying to her` that was really mean, i would never do anything like that to you` I mean how could she do something so cruel to someone who is her friend?! We always get in arguments, but sometimes she can be nice. I can never get her to apoligize though, even when she does the damage I end up apoligizing.It makes me feel weak that I gotta give into her, so what should I do? She makes it seem like I'm being overly sensitive but a while back she could have done anything to me and I wouldn't of cared.I'm just sick of being treated the way she treats me... (link)
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i've had a friend that is in the same position as you... she was being pushed around and she just finally got sick and tired of it... there may be a reason behind that though, she might be insecure with herself or may be having problems and she takes it out in the wrong ways, or she may just want attention. .. talk to her about it and tell her that you don't appreciate it when she pushes you around and that you wanted to be treated with respect. *good luck* :)
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Hey. I'm Colleen. I'm 14/f.
Me and my three best friends, Emily, Ally, and Marissa have been best friends for a while. We've never gotten into a fight until this year. Were always fighting now and talking about eachother. I don't even really think were best friends anymore because Emily told me that she doesn't think Marissa likes her anymore because she never talks to her. Instead she talks ABOUT her to me. They both do. I don't think Ally likes me because she ignores me. Ally told me in a note that Emily said to their other friend Jackie that it seems like Jackie and Ally are best friends and me and Marissa are best friends. I like them all the same and I really wanna be best friends with them again! What should I do?
xoxo_CoLLeEn!*! (link)
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hey colleen,
it sounds like you have a situation on your hands that's not the easiest to deal with... i think that you should talk to all of your friends and maybe see what's up... then maybe you all can sort through whatever it is and be friends again... just let them know that you don't want to be in the position you're in and that you want to be friends with all of them... good luck :)
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ok my best friends (who is also my boyfriend)dad just recently passed away.i no its been hard for him but hes taken it so well, way better than i thought he would. i told him i was always there if he needed to talk to anyone about anything and he said he appreciated it.im kind of hesitant about talking to him about his dad or bringing it up but it seems like he sometimes wants to talk about it.he'll bring him up in our regular conversations and he'll write about him. the thing is, im not sure if he actually wants to DISCUSS about it or not.should i let him do the talking on this topic or talk about it w/him?because maybe he wants me to ask about it and maybe he enjoys talking aobut his dad but im not sure.... wut should i do? (link)
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i have been right where your boyfriend is... i lost my dad a couple of years ago, so i am speaking from experience.... it is a sensitive subject, but sometimes i know i do want to talk about it, b/c it really helps to get everything out.... it's interesting to see how different people deal with losses, and what helps them. i write about my dad, too and i'll sometimes bring it up in my regular conversations. i am very glad when my friends ask me if i want to talk about that or if i need to, b/c it lets me know that they are concerned and really care about my feelings. if he is dealing with it like i have, i don't think it would hurt to ask him about it, and just to let him know that you're there if he ever needs someone to talk to.
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