hello, my name is selina and i was advised to create my own column due to the fact that i just cant help giving out advice and helping people with any questions that are on their mind. i know what its like to be botherd by something and not no who to ask it is alot easier to log on and ask a stranger who is willing to listen and help because you get no bad comeback,no spreaded goossip, no judgment,ect, so if you have something on your mind that is bothering you ask me and i will do my very best to help you out!!!!
thank you for reading........
E-mail: angelsp84@yahoo.com
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Location: south london
Occupation: nursery nurse
Age: 19
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i'm a 16 yr old wo has been bullied for 9 nine years. Mostly fopr the pure reason of my apperance. I live in a family of five in a one parent family. I arn't the kind of kid to ask for everything maybe coz i no we cart afford it. At school i have at least 90 kids bullying me about my appearance and teaseing me. We i started igh school i had a group of friends but now the popular person in the group lost a bit of weight and turned into a bitch saying i could never get that size because im a size 16. Sjhe is aware i am being bullied. Now i have no friends at school cart go to half my lessons coz its so bad. I arn't jelsous of them i just no why people say be proud to be different if ppl just bully u. Ive been to the doctors about depresstion and the school nurse. A man who deals with suidal people sat in on one of out conversations but i guess i wasnt that important. I cart look ppl in the eyes anymore i have so much pain in my heart and feel so unhappy for something i cart change. I no the bullying wont stop but i just want to no why i souldf be the one feeling lonely upset and made to feel different coz i have ginger hair and dont wear adidas. (link)
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hello, i really feel for you, because i know how you must be feeling. what about out of school, are there not many people your age who live in the same area as you. the people at your school who bully you, they are the ones who need counciling,they are the one's who are so shallow that they need to pick on someone, there the ones with insicurities that they feel they have the right to hurt someone. hold your head up high, trust me, you are a wonderful,beautiful person, hold your head up high, dont show them that it gets to you, because then they will be the ones who look and feel stupid. people will see the confidence in you and will get to no you for who you are and not what u wear, an adidas tracksuit does not make sum one a better person, you need a personality, a life ect to make who you are and by the looks of it the people that feel they have a rite to bully you dont have one, they need to grow up and relise what life is all about, dont worry. we should treat others the way we want to be treated, so you can imagine what they've got to look forward to, you will come out tops, it always happens to nice people, its what they deserve.
any ways ive babbled on enough, i just hope ive helpd. if you want you can e-mail me at Angelsp84@yahoo.com and we can keep in contact as friends if you want, im selina (19yrs) bye..
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