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theres a girl at my school who i used to be good friends with at the beginning of the year. its my first year at a new school, so i was making friends. one day, she decided to flip on me, and cuss at me, calling me all these horrible names and trying to offend me. although, it didnt bother me too much, just the fact that she was picking on me. it stopped for a little while, and i talked to other people, and just made more friends. yesterday she writes on my facebook wall accusing me of telling another girl that she was talking bad about her. when i NEVER did such a thing. i have no reason too, why should i talk about someone who i have no desire to like? but, then today, she keeps bringing it up and calling me all these rude things. im friends with a lot of her friends, so i sit with her at lunch. not next to her of course. i know i shouldnt be scared to stick up for myself, but i am, and im usually not like this. if she says something to me in school tomorrow, should i say something back, or just ignore it? people tell me to ignore it, which is what i did for the first time it happened, and it seemed to go away, but, i dont want her thinking im super nice and will let her walk all over me. when she was rude to me over facebook, i was rude back. i think its just when im in person.
anyone have any ideas or advice on what i should do about this situation? please dont say "be friends" because we both really dont like eachother, but this whole thing is about something so pointless. (link)
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Many girls in high school are catty, hopefully she'll get over it. But until then, take a deep breath and tell her the truth. That you didn't do it, and that you have no desire to do it and that whoever said you did was a liar. And if you wish to go a bit further, you can tell her how immature she's being and that she should grow up and stop being a stuck up catty bitch and to grow up. You can practice saying it over and over in the mirror or something, and have people you trust with you when you do it - to help you from feeling scared. Good luck.
-Mother Hubbard
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My grades are slipping, I can't figure out why. I need some ways to stay organized and on task, good study techniques, how to keep focus during class, and get things in on time.
Thank you!! :] (link)
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do homework, instead of check your email. If you have troubles with homework, have a friend help you (as long as you won't joke around more than accomplish anything). and in class, maybe have a little snack to help focus. and get enough sleep with a little caffinee in the morning, and you should be good to go (: let me know if you need anymore help. good luck.
-Mother Hubbard
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I have a really hard time keeping focused when I'm doing homework...I always end up on the computer doing whatever and then I'm cramming in homework late at night. Any method to keep focused?? (link)
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Do your homework where you won't see the computer (put a blanket over it if you have to). If you like, you could have some snacks with you - so you'll focus more on eating than on your urge to go on the computer. Practice good restraint, and show yourself you can focus on more than facebook google and youtube ;) you can even have little rewards (for completing all of it, maybe even small ones for each piece you complete. I.E. finish maths, get a treat. finish history, get another treat). But if you keep this habit, it might not be good (unless you use fruits or veggies) so when you think you're ready, it might be a good idea to test youself without the treats (there's no treats in the real world) so get the focus, then lose the crutch (like riding a bike). You can do it! Good luck.
-Mother Hubbard
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