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im wondering why everyone tells me im so pretty, yet guys don't think it. its not like me to really care, but its still a thought i keep in the back of my mind. guys see pretty as skinny blondes who are only fit to be in cover of Vouge. but when a girl tells you your pretty, they see it in greater detail. the color or you hair, eyes, skin tone; a different kind of pretty. when i look in the mirror, i look past the fact that im not a tall skinny blonde. i see how many shades of colors are in my hair, and i see how it brings out my eyes. yeah, im not the skinniest girl-- but im not really all that fat. i was raised to eat healthy, and i do. actually, i don't eat all that much junk food. yeah, sometimes i eat some candy, or even cake, but its not really all that much. im average. but yet people tease me about my weight, claiming that im over 120-- sometimes even say im 140. but im not. and who really cares, anyway? looks have become so important to people. so important, they look past the really nice, good people, who are actually interesting and have a greater IQ than their shoe size.

sorry its not really a question..
so here is the real one:
why is it guys think so differently?
im sure that there is at least ONE guy who thinks in greater detail, right? (link)
Yes....there are guys that think in greater detail and look passed the surface but those are really hard to find. They are out there tho. Guys think diffrently because they dont want their guys friends to tease them about how their girlfriends look. You just have to say to heck with them and find you a nice guy. But some girls think that way too. Some girls and guys just think looks are everything. But i have always thought the way you think.


-Cathleen JAcobs


hey im a guy and my hair goes down to my eyes and on the bak it goes down a little. do u no any shampoos or conditioners i can use to make it straighter. i have straight hair but it kinda curls in the bak and there are some waves on da front. i dont want to use a straightener btw. thanks!!! (link)
Well yes there is a shampoo. HErbal Essence is the name of it but look on the bottle for one that talks about straighting you hair. No one for curls or anything else. But the best way to get it completely straight and look really good.....even tho you dont want to is use a straightner. A great straightner is called wet-to-straight you can use it on dry hair or even as soon as you get out of the shower you can get it at wal-mart for like 20 bucks. It works great. Believe me im a female i know my hair-stuff and plus i know what makes a guy cute. and i love guys with long hair.


-Cathleen jacobs


im planning on taking a hiphop class (it starts tomorrow) but i dont know what to wear and im pretty sure theres some type of dress code of sorts you have to follow for hiphop... but any suggestions on what exactly im suppose to wear? tight fitting shirt or loose? baggy/cargo pants or not? tennis shoes or something else? please and thank you! (link)
okay hip-hop would be tight shirt maybe showing a little bit of a belly if you're fit. Ummmm cargo pants is a must. and some nice tennis shoes. Believe me i have that outfit and it works! Ive been told i look like a girl off the ciara music videos! welp hope i helped have fun!


♥ CATHLEEN JACOBS




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