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Q: hi i am nearly 14 and i am only a 30AA/30AAA why are they so small it is so embarissin all my friends are c cup and i have grown loadz and started my period please answer it
well i'm 14 and i'm only 32A...so your not that far behind me. but i've noticed my boobs are getting better. just give it time. you may just normally be a smaller cup size. look at your mom, your grandma on both sides, and even your aunts who are blood related. that can tell you how big your boobs can possibly get. its all heredity. but give it time!
hope i helped.

Q: So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??

whats wrong :[
No, you shouldn't be worried.

It's normal. I think i read someone else say that your body is just preparing for a baby...well yea that true. lol but you might be on your period again or it might be irregular which just means you don't start at the same time as you normally do.

but it's nothing to be worried about! tampons, pads, you'll be good.

don't freak out! i know exactly how you feel and mainly it just makes you even more scared cuz your freaking out about it! calm down and let your body do what it's gotta do..

don't we love that time of the month?!

[yes; that was sarcastic.]
hope i helped.

-stephanie =D

Q: Hi. This morning, as i was in bed, i tried rubbing my eyes, and my right eye, really hurt. so after a few hours, i got up, looked in the mirror, and there was some sort of yellowish-green thick liquid, on the edge of my eye, and my eye was slightly red and runny. there is also a tiny little spot on the edge of my eye, that hurts also. My eye hurts when i blink, or look around. is this an eye infection, or something worse? will it get better with eyedrops? thanks.
there's 3 things it could be.

1.) pink eye - which can be treated with eye drops

2.) allergies - also treated w/ eye drops [the yellowish-green liquid is from soemthing either your allergic to or it's pollen from outside or dust..]

3.) something worse

but i highly doubt it's something worse.
go to the doctor as soon as possible and check it out just to make sure

but usually all eye problems are healed with eye-drops

half of it's telling me it's allergies because of the pollen n stuff outside.

you might have scratched it while your sleeping to!

just go have the doctor check it out and you'll be fine!

-stephanie

Q: Any advice to sooth cramps? Or any good medicine?
I know Advil, Tylenol, lying on your back, and exercising helps.
Any other tips?
hey!

ok well try a heating pad they are amazing. My cramps go down real fast leaving the heating pad on high for like 10 minutes. If that doesn't work try a cool wash cloth then the heating pad.

Some warm tea would work too!

And of course lay down!

hope this helped
-stephanie

Q: 14/f im going to florida on tuesday and i due for my period and i dont want it while in florida cause im gunna be going in the pool and beach and i dont wanna look all bloated in a bathingsuit so is there something i can do to either get my period like in the next couple of days or something i can do so i dont get my period for a while?

thanks
That would totally stink!

Try asking your doctor if you can get a pill to just hold off on the period. But mainly this stuff is for like 18 and up because your body still has to develop...you can always try like midol while your down there. and maybe you'll be lucky and you'll get it maybe the last day your there or the day after!

-stephanie

Q: Why are so many teenagers these days (particularly girls) obsessed with losing weight while they are like 100 lb?? Seriously, a girl who is like 12, 5 feet and 2 inches, and then complains she is overweight is actually underweight!

I don't get why girls want to get to be like 75 lb. Does anybody agree with me here?
yea i agreee...speakin i am a girl...i'm pretty much underweight and a lot of my friends are too and all i hear about is omg i can't eat that it'll make me fat...or ew it makes me look fat and ugly...it's annoying...mainly i think it's just cuz of their low self esteem..lol but yea 12 year olds shouldn't be worryin about that..


-Xliisten2urheart

Q: Ok so here's the thing I have a lot of acne. I tried everything proactive clearisil but it just won't work my mom doesn't want to buy me any expensive products. So I get teased in school. Any ideas?. Also I get teased because I have big lips. Any help?ideas?
if you get made fun of for your big lips the people are being idiotic; they're acting REALLY immature so just ignore them lol try using witch hazel [type of alcohol] for the ance that was i use when i break out. it helps use it once a day for maybe 2 weeks and it should start clearing up. if it makes your skin dry use a lotion from neutrogeena for the face.

hope that helps!

-xLiiSTEN2URHEART

Q: 16/F
By nature I am a shy girl. I have a problem which makes life difficult for me. When I use toilet its a noisy, mean I make loud sounds (louder farts). As I said I am shy in nature so I try to avoid visit toilet when in school or out side home, or I spend too much time sitting on toilet seat trying to avoid or lower the sound or trying to just pass the urine without releasing air. This creates a big problem for me.If you have any advise please....
Well i wouldn't consider it as a problem. and everyone passes gas...it's just part of the human nature (lol) but you may need to see the doctor about gas or digestive problems....what i do is watch wat you eat...you might be eating a lot of a certain food that makes your stomach upset. you can even take this medicine called "GAS X" it works if you feel that you're going to fart loud. i take that after i have pizza, spaghetti, foods that make you fart. Well i hope i helped. if you have any other questions e-mail me at sgarrison@fuse.net or xLiisten2urheart@aim.com or just leave me one in my inbox

Much Love

Q: Hello,

I woke up yesterday morning with an awful itchy white spotty mouth, the spots are tiny, white heads in patches all around the mouth area, extremly itchy, feel really dry when scratch them and came from no where.

I am going make a doctors appointment, but i really would like you advice before

Hope to hear from you before


It could just be break out. There's different type and some people get different types of "pimples" or spots lol. But since it's by your mouth it could be comething you ate. or you might consider putting blistex or some kind of chapstick around your whole mouth. but that's a good thing that you're going to the doctors. because it COULD be something a little more serious..

Hope it goes weLL!

-Steph

Q: ok well i was wondering if the workouts in the seventeen magizne actually work because i dont want to waste my time doing it and then it doesnt work lol but if they dont work is there any workouts on the internet u could tell me about?? well thankzz i will rate 5
Well i really dont' know. But you can't just exercise. you have to eat right too. and like i say to everyone just eat healthy, walk everyday or run, and do cardio workouts like crunches or walking on a tredmil

Q: Okay well a like a month ago, me and my bf had sex, and he didn't wear a condom. he lets call it "let go" no in me but a little lower than my lower stomache. Now see my period was supposed to start today, but it didn't, and i'm sure it'll come soon, but the thing is about 5-6 days after we had sex a month ago, i got my period.

Can i still be pregnant by any chance?

and i'm 14.

thank you.
Ok, well wow. only 14...jeeezze. ok but look. It's possible for you to get pregnant but for some reason i highly dout it. you have like a 30% of being pregnant and a 70% chance of not. But for one thing; gosh use protection. if you are still going out with this guy he probably knows that you started and he'd probably want to do it again. but USE PROTECTION...and wow. i'm just blown out of my mind. keep in mind that u could have STD's floatin around...and that isn't good but wow. 14 year old having sex before marriage, before her period, and before she even got out of high school. ok but this is my final answer:

* You are probably not pregnant *
note the probably;i would go to the doctor and have them check. and i would tell your parent/ gaurdian about that or your not gonna be able to go to the doctor's to find out. and if by any chance you are pregnant...don't get an abortion. i'm totally against it. if you are and you think about it...think of this
you and your bf created that baby, no matter what you're gonna love it and if you kill it your going to feel bad. trust me i know many people who have had an abortion. ok but well go to the doctor and have them check it out but feel free to e-mail me at xLiisten2urheart@aim.com just in case you want to talk to me and not have everyone on advicenators know about it ;) hehe. well hope it goes well!

-Steph

Q: my face is oily but whenever i have foundation or concealer on my forehead, it seems like its peeling, like i can see the little skin peeling off.. but its not alot.. what is this and how do i get rid of it? i use mosturizer so i dont know.. and also how can i get rid of the oil on my forehead?
Here's what i would do.

When you wake up take a wash cloth and use some gentle cleansing wash that's either soap free or use oil free wash. I use the soap free stuff! it works good.
Then i would use some shinefree poweder hmm i think i got it from maybelline... yea it's called shine free and it's from maybelline lol.
A reason you could have a really oily face is you might be out in the sun too long or you just have that type of skin...that's they way mine is. But then afterwards put the rest of ur make-up on so it looks natural looking.

then at night wash it off. if you leave make-up on over night it clogs up pores which can cause blackheads...zits form usually because of stress. But use the same scrub in the morning or use a nightly facial for olay that's what i use also. It works really well and it also helps prevent blackheads, oily skin, and zits. If you have any more questions just ask me i'd be glad to help!

Hope it works out for ya!!

-Steph

bio
xLiisten2urheart
alright well 1st off my name is Stephanie.
i'm 13... in 8th grade


i cheered my 8th grade year. i didn't cheer 6 or 7th [that was volleyball]

i love sports



i love God!




uhm. anything else i guess just i.m. me


-Stephanie


p.s. i'll proly get a new column soon. xLiisten2urheart the name is getting boring. lol...but then again i might wait a while.

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