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Bid night is tonight and well, I was just wanting your opinion on what you think will happen if I decide that I don't want to join a sorority this year and wait til next, even though I have a bid. (link)
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Hey
Well wait until next year.
Its up to you!
You have to feel comfortable. If you are not 100% for getting into a sorority you will not enjoy it.
GOOD LUCK
Keep me updated!
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I'm going to be doing Rush soon, for sororities, and I know one of the rules is no alcohol and no talking to guys during Rush. But, My bf goes to another school and I talk to him everyday on the phone so does that mean I can't talk to him either?
Also, I know what happens during Rush but am I allowed to tell the sorority members that I'm really interested in their sorority or do I wait and see what happens on bid day? (link)
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Ok..I am going to take a different approach...
I am apart of a sorority.. During rush you want to find out as much about the sorority as possible.
How much are their dues?
How often do they get together?
When are their meetings?
How long are their meetings?
What are the rules if you cant attend a sorority function?
Will you have to pay a fine if your unable to go to a event?
Ask them whats the difference between their sorities and others?
Ask them if they haze or will you have to make you do other things to join?
DO NOT JOIN A SORORITY THAT HAZES!!!!
Ask them how often they go out as a sorority?
What cause do they raise money for?(Every sorority raises money for a cause!)
Ask then what is their favorite activity they do as a sorority!
As for your question
I am not sure about every sorority...but Alpha Gamma Delta (the sorority Im in) does not force girls to not speak to their boyfriends.
Tell the girls you are intersted....in their sorority..
Be excited!
BE YOURSELF!!!!
Be honest..even if your not sure its what they want to hear!
Good luck
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I'm starting college on Monday and I just wanted to ask a few general questions. I'm going to Penn State McKeesport (aka Greater Allegheny) if that helps.
1. This might sound weird, but how do people normally dress for college? I come from a HS that didn't allow ANYTHING. I don't know if it's different in college. Like, are shorts and tank tops allowed? I'm just wondering.
2. Obviously, I'll have books. Do people usually carry their books, use backpacks, or use just really big purses?
3. I won't know anyone, and I'm not so good at making friends because I'm really really shy, so any pointers for making friends would be much appreciated.
Thanks in advance and sorry if the first 2 questions are really weird, but I have social anxiety disorder, so I NEED to know stuff like that hahah.
Oh and also, I'm driving to school, so no, I won't have a roommate to make friends with. :[ (link)
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Dress is VERY laid back... The first week you will see some students dressing nicer than they will the 2nd month of school. The longer school is in session the less people care about their clothes.
Tanks and shorts are fine...
I dont carry all my books. The first day you wont need your books. In class, ask the teacher what books you will need in class because many of them will be used for readings at home. I personally use a purse, only reason is that I dont have to carry all my books to class.
Making friends... Talk to the people you are sitting around...
Join a club...
Rush a sorority...
Good luck...
You will be fine!
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