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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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what your mom is doing is absolutley awful. Next time she does that, say politely "Mom, while I appreciate and respect your opinion, I have confidence in myself and the way I look, and what your saying to me really hurts my feelings" Just be honest and open, never hide what your feeling. I really hope i helped, drop one in my inbox and let me know how everything turns out
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okay. i need to talk to someone and none of my friends can really help. my parents are divorced and i dont see my dad very often. i live with my mother who is an alcoholic and gets pissed off easliy. today my brother and mom got into a huge fight. she is now gone, i mean she just left. i called her and she said that she just needed to be alone. she hasnt returned yet, and i dont know what to do. i am only 14 and my brother 11. she is most likely going to come home incredibly drunk and when she is drunk life just sucks... i dont know what to do anymore because i am just sick of it. this isnt the first time she has just left...... (link)
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Ok, when your mother gets drunk, if she has ever, ever once hit you, this is a matter for the police. But the environment yu and your brother are living in is not one that you should have to grow up in. Talk to a relative or someone you could stay with. And your mother needs some help. She needs to go into counseling. Anything you and yur brother can do to get out of that house permantly, do it. Yu don't have to deal with this, it is not safe. Best of luck, i hope everything turns out fine.
PS-PRAY TO GOD!
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hey.. i have a VERRRY bad situation. My mom and dad are getting a divorce and i dont know what to do! Is it my fault? What can i do (if possible) to get them back together? i love my mom and my dad but when they yell and scream its hard for me to love either one of them.... plz plz plz help!! Everytime i think about it it makes me cry!! (link)
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It's not your fault, it's never your fault. Whatever they are going through, it is there problem. As sad as it is, you can't get them together. If it is there problem (which it is) only they can fix it. When they are yelling and fighting with eachother, it probably creates a miserable mood around the house. So when they are apart, it will be better for everyone. It's probably hard to see that right now, but my friends have parents who are divorced, and they say when their parents are apart, they get along much better.
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