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Q: ok well my brother was recently let out of jail, and during that period of time, i got along with my mom... okay.. not great though, and everytime he has been here.. she's changed, she has been favoring him SO MUCH! and she was like this before he left too, but i dont know how to deal with this. she says stuff to me that hurts alot, and she does stuff for him that i would ask for the same and she would be like, do it yourself, or mean stuff like that! i really dont know how to put up with this! it makes me really sad, cause i have been trying to get a relationship with my mom cause i dont have one with my dad (even though he lives me me) and it just doesnt work! please help! i dont know how to deal with this anymore! cause it has been goin on for years! :-(
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Just tell ur mom how yah feel it myte jsut work never know open up with her,,talk to her more..dont wait for her to come to you...hope i helped!..
x3 always*JessiE*
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Q: ok well latly i have been remembering times when i was younger that i did not like at all. my family would take pictures of me when i was in the bathtub.(i was about 10 or so at the time) and i recall one time when my grandmother was scratching my back but went below my pants line and i freaked out,ran away and cryed. my mom said i was making to big of a deal out of it. again when i was about 9, my mom would suggest that i sleep topless in the summer if i got hot. i always thought that was strange. plus my family(including aunts and grandparents) spanked my butt for no reason at all. just when they passed me they would. i dont like thinking that they did that to me, but i was younger at the time and i didnt know any better because i though a lot of famlies were like that. well now i know that they're not and theres also a lot of other problems going on in my house(not sexualy). but is there something i can do about it now that im older and know it was wrong...(is it wrong?) or if i should just forget about it because its passes. oh and i have always felt that i would get raped before im 18...please help me if you can...
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no...it isnt wrong u whur little its no big deal to sleep shirtless whn ur little it wuld b a way diffrent story if u whur like 14 or sumpin but about tha hitting ur butt..tht aint a bid deal..its just messsign around..ok i hope i helped..i am here ne tyme yah nead me.
x3 always-Jessie-
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Q: My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back with my dad. ASt least he dont yell at us for nothing. He actually pays attention to us. My mom and Ron just pays attention to Ronnie. Grrr...
Help me plz. I dunno what to do.
signed.. Family Trouble
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well i say just tell her how yah feel and if it dont work move back with our dad i mean what else can yah do ur only a kid!...but i know what it is like i am havin tha same problems in my house and i am abbout your age and i know it is hard just try and xplain it to your mom and see what happenes!..hope i helped!..
xO Jessie
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Q: Okie, here's a little background...my guy and I have been dating for almost 11 months, and we're really serious.
Recentlyish, my mom's been focusing on EVERY little "mistake" my guy makes. For instance, today he was late picking me up for school and she kept saying "I hope he's really coming, because you missed the bus and I'm not driving you." and stuff like that., and I wanted to smack her...Lol. I HATE that she keeps doing this. She takes the tiniest things, like lateness, or the way he's so tight with money and turns them into huge flaws.
I pointed out to her that she makes me think she doesn't like him, and she tells me she's just "looking out for me" and "making sure I see things/the whole picture". Honestly, the only thing I see wrong with him is that he snores on his back...
My guy also thinks my mom has issues with him, and I suggested maybe HE should talk to her about the impression she's giving off, but I doubt he'd do it unless I bothered him about it enough.
The thing is, I've been really careful with this relationship and am able to take myself out of the picture and see what's going on because I want it to work more than anything.
The confusing thing is, mom says she actually likes him. I don't understand her. How do I get my mom to shut up?
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just b str8 ^ with ur mom tell hwe to stop it is makin you mad and u really like him and if she dont like it then fine but u dont care what she thinks...i really hope i helped lol...
-Jessie-
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(A)ge~14
(b)irthday~ december 4
(C)olors~pink,black,blue
(d)ream boy~ shawn.=(
(E)ducated at~ Edison Jr High
(f)avorite food~ macoroni
(G)reatest thing~ muh best friend in tha whole wide world lindsey!!!!..and boys!
(h)obbies~hangin out with friends*movies*mall*fone and alOt more!..
(I)im alwayz~busy
(j)ob~ dont got one...
(K)issed~ yup!!!..
(l)ocation~ OhiO
(m)ood~ bored and hungry!
(N)ame~ JessiE
(o)bession~guyz,n clothes
(P)erfect at~nothing
(q)uiet~sum tymes!..im *shy*
(R)ead~magazines
(s)ecret~ if i tell you then it wont be a secret now would it?
(T)alent~flirting , shopping , dance , cheerleading
(u)p 4~mainly anything, but depands
(V)ery best thing about me~ luv to help people,friendly,nice,
(w)orst thing about me~ my attitude sometimes lol
(X)treme sports~no..
(y)oga~ nooO isnt tht fir old ppl?..((cluless))
(Z)odiac~caporcorn..((kant spell lol))
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: OhiO Age: 14 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: prettylilditz9@hotmail.com Member Since: October 5, 2004 Answers: 41 Last Update: October 7, 2004 Visitors: 4319
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