I made this advice column to help kids and teens with their problems. I have personally had deal with siblings, friends, parents, school, and basically anything and everything else. I know what it feels like to be upset when life gives me crap. I assure you guys, the advice I give will not be like, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!" No. I don't believe in that bull. I'll give advice that will help guide you and maybe help you make the right choice. The advice I'll give would be realistic and straight forward. No nonsense. I remember hating it when adults told me to look on the positive side of things when I was upset, I mean, what the hell? It's so hard to look at some crappy situation positively. Like when my grandma died, how the hell am I supposed to look positively at that? Couldn't you guys just let me mourn and leave me alone? But a teacher who was just like am I now gave me some advice that actually helped. She told me some things that helped me cope with the loss. Unfortunately, I haven't seen her since grade five. Oh yeah, one more thing, I do not appreciate stupid questions because there ARE such things as stupid questions. So don't be asking for homework help or anything like that. kkthanx
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Latly my dad has been acting strange. My parents are fighting all the time. I just found out a few months ago that my dad has been marryed before my mom.I also found out that they got devorced because my dad cheated on her...and not with my mom. He has been "working" over time alot. He gets drunk alot too. I find condoms all over there room. I know they could have been from my mom but I really just have a strange feeling about it. I know for a fact that he still talks to his ex wife. I really dont like my dad. I have been wishing for years that they would get a divorce. But I dont want my dad to be cheating on my mom.What do you think is going on? (link)
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That's not for me to say... but from your conclusion, something fishy is going on. Maybe you should do some detective work and get to the bottom of it. It may be something totally different, or not. You can't judge before you know the facts.
What really confuses me if the fact that you don't like your own dad. That's just... wrong. I mean, he's your father. If he were a step-father I would understand. I can't seem to get the fact that you don't like him much. It's confusing, but I guess you can't choose family.
Ask your mom if they )(your mom and dad) have been having sex because you've seen condoms. I know it may be embarrassing but she's your mom, she has to answer, right? If it's not from her, then she'll know the truth about your dad and will get to the bottom of it by confronting him.
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