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Age: 16
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Sometimes my mom can be my best friend, but often she takes it way too far. She'll ask me very private questions, won't let me have time to myself, and whenever I don't get invited somewhere she pesters me to basically admit to her that I'm a loser. She's always making me feel worse about myself asking questions like "Why does no one like you? Why don't they invite you places? Why are you sitting home alone again?" I quit cheerleading a few months ago (she was totally against me quitting it) so now she always tells me if I stuck with cheering I'd actually have friends. This really hurts.
I've tried asking her to stop, but then she just tells me I'm too sensitive and to get over myself. I'm not sure what to do about her anymore. (link)
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Sounds like your mom is just trying a little too hard. She probably just sees it as her way of helping you out, and doesn't realize what she's doing to you. If it's to the point where she's insulting you to your face, tell her to back off. She doesn't have the right to be that controlling. You should try to sit down with her, and have a serious talk with her. If she's asking those kinds of questions, its not you being sensitive at all.
hope I helped.
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