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E-mail: KenniD94@cox.net Gender: Female Location: VA Age: 13 AIM: kayendall06 Member Since: November 7, 2005 Answers: 9 Last Update: November 8, 2005 Visitors: 1889
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To start off, im 13 female.
i really need your help..
i dont live with either of my parents,i live with my grandparents, because my mom was a addicted to drugs and my dad was addicted to sex ( with other people besides my mom ) well they never got married, it was like a 1 night stand thing. and of course i myself was a mistake. < im over that now... any ways the judge guy said that me and my sister ( who is almost 16 ) are not allowed to live with her or be alone with her ( one time when i was two, my grandmaw was in the back yard playing with me and my sister and i was in the grass a little farther from them and my mom came , she was high, and she came through the gate and took me and i was gone for 2 1/2 months and then my mom went to jail i dont know what for though but then this lady brought me back ). that was like when i was little. any ways i always hang out with my mom now, and she has her life mostly staightened out but she still has her liscense suspended and isnt allowed to drive ( sometimes she still does ) well i have been places with her alot and she was talking on the phone with this guy she lives with and she was like walking away from me when she was talking to him and she was like i need some and i heard him say need some what and she was like you know what i am talking about and then she didnt kno i heard her and so she was through talking to him and she hung up.. well today i spent the night at her house and we went to the gas station at like 8 in the morning, ( she was driving ) and then she called this guy on the phone and her exact words were " i need four" and he was like alright come over and get them and so we went to his house but she made me stay in the car and she went inside and was gone for like 10 minutes... well i think shes into drugs again and i think she is cheating on her boy friend with other guys because when she got back she said " i had to talk to my other boyfriend " and it juss hurt me so bad knowing that she is doing all this.. well do you guys think shes into drugs again? im really worried.. should i juss wait and see where this all takes me or should i confront her, or go to my grandparents.. but i think they might not let me see her again if i do.. im soo lost! please help me.. i rate 5's
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- confused (link)
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Aw, I'm really sorry. I think you should confront your grandparents about this. Your mom is probably still on drugs, and cheating on her boyfriend [etc.] Even though it hurts to believe it, your mom is a bad influence on you. Sorry!
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he dosent hit me !!!!!! he just says things (link)
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I know, but there are many different kinds of child abuse. Emotional and Physical.
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ok my dad is always drunk. and when he is i always get mad at him and this time it got really bad he called me all these things that i no he didnt mean and it really made me hurt i love him to death we get along so good when hes not drunk and i no he didnt mean what he called me but it made me soo hurt i cant even explain and when i try talking to him when he is drunk so he wont remember. i love my dad !! please help !! (link)
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Sometime, when he is not drunk talk to him and tell him. Also, talk to a relative about this. It could be serious, like child abuse in some way. I don't want you to get taken away from your dad or anything, so just tell someone you trust so you can let it out. When your dad gets drunk, stay in your room and hide. Be quiet when you do too! You need to convince him to stop drinking too. Try your hardest!
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