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ok my parents are are divorced now and have been for a while now. I live with my mom and i go to az to vist my dad every summer for 1 mounth. I hate going to my dad because he is always trying to change me. I doesn't like the way I talk becuz i don't use proper grammer, i don't dress up everyday. I where jeans and a tee-shirt. my dad is even trying to make me do my make-up differnt. i told that i feel like he is trying to change me and i don't like it. I feel like my dad doesn't like me the way i am. I feel like i have to earn his love and it really hurts me. He has a huge ego, how can i tell how i feel without pissing him off because everytime i try i piss him off and he makes me feel bad about it. wheni am with him i can not bw my true self. please help me.
Try sitting your dad down and talking to him. Tell him, in a calm quiet mannor, that you are you. You may be family but you are two different people, with different ideas, attitudes, and styles. Tell him you need to be yourself or else you feel like a different person. I'm sure he'll understand.
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