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13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!

Samantha says ; OMGGG I have the same exact problem.. see i have two older sisters who were not the greatest kids.. See my oldest one who is now 28 had a baby when she was about my age so that ruins being able to hang out with boys with out being questioned right when i get home. And my other sister who is now 23 did drugs when she was my age and younger so my parents always have to make sure adults are always where i go which effing sucks. So yeah.. what you should do is do what i did. I cried my eyes out .. i just said to my family that i'm not retarded like my other sisters and that i'm smart enough not to make bad choices i know that what i do will have consiquences so i dont do bad things. If you have a talk like that with your parents.. with your sister present maybe it will clear the air and give you a tad bit more freedom.. hey it worked for me.. IM me sometime ; brunette x5o

Danielle says ; I would say tell your mom that you wont do the things that your sister did and that if tyou have a cell phone then you'll always have it will you, on you.. and fully charged so she can always contact you so maybe she will be a little more trusting and she'll always know where you're at.

Hope this helps!
=) samantha and danielle

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my older sister is 15 and i am 13, and i can't stand her! like she just bugs the hell out of me. she tries to be like her "own person", she is obsessed with animals, mostly horses, and reading. but i am the exact opposite, i hate reading and i like partying, boys, music, and tennis. she is trying to act like me though. i mean she likes country music, and i like rap hip hop and r& b. now she is starting to like maroon 5 and stuff that i like it is pissing me off and its just cause she is trying to be cool because she knows she is really annoying. and my mom is making me spend the day with her at the pool tomorrow, which i really don't want to do because there are only 2 days until i go to camp and i would rather spend my time with my friends! how do i get out of it?!?! please help me!

Danielle says ; I think even though you have your differences you are still sisters.. you cant try to change her opinions or what shes trying to be. If you really want to spend time with your friends before camp tell your mom and make sure you promise to spend the day with her when you get back. If your mom wont let you get out of it then just tell your friends to meet you at the pool!

Samantha says ; Tell your sister that you think she is annoying then maybe she will tell your mom that she doesnt want to have to spend the day with you and then you're all set. But if that doesnt work then tell your mom that you really dont like hanging around with your sister because you two are so different.. i mean c'mon you have to put up with her at home too..


Hope this helps!
=) samantha + danielle

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