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Location: Minnesota
Age: 15
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Ok I can answer almost anything and know I am stuck on a single family problume! Ahh but thanks for your help ahead of time!!! Ok my parents are always fighting I mean always! They fight over my dad always yelling at me cussing me out and stuff like that! Then this past school some girl who I had never talked to only maybe once or twice. Told the office that I was being abussed because i had bruises on me. Yeah my da had hit me and so on and so on, but they didn't even let me talk very much or anything to say my side or anything. They called childrens services and they came to my house. My dad lied to them in front of every onen else in my family and he said that it was just from be that I was falling of my horse running barrels and he grabed me because he didn't want me to hurt my self! He yells at me all the time and he is hardly ever home but when he is I am always in the worst mood because I don't want to be around him! He once told me to get the hell out of his life! I tryed to run away this was about a year ago! And i have also tryed to run away in the past as well! But I don't do that any more because my mom swares that if she lost me she would get killed! But know onto my brother... he is just like my dad except the beating of him is worse! I will do one thing wrong like leave up the foot rest on our couch and he will sit there and screem at the top of his lugs at me for it. I cant look people in the eyes I never have it makes me feel weired but then he punches me and kicks me and things like that! he does it all the time! he has cut me with knifes and spoons and thrown me down stairs! Too What i am saying is also he is getting married and she wants kids! I have tryed to tell her but she is too in love with my brother to understand me! I am worrried for my brothers fiancee(sp?) and his future kids and also what can I do about my parents and my brother? I am so stressed out I don't know how to handle it!!! Please Help I need it bad! Also Sorry this is soo long!!! (link)
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Ok, my dad has never abused me like your dad but he yells at me and i got him the hell out of my life. Talk to your mom, maternal insticnts are really really strong. Tell her you two need to get out of there. And seriously call the cops! But if you don't call the cops you still need to get out of there. To tell you the truth before i got on this site i thought what my dad did to me is bad but what your dad does to you can hurt your relationships in the long run. Also, you should talk to a couselor at your cmmunity center if they have them. Tell them its completely confidential and ask them to tell you your options. They'll help you through it, believe me! If you ever need to talk you can ask me anytime! I really hope everything works out!
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My family is all going to go to Wisconsin next Thursday-Sunday. I do not want to go and neither does my mom. We would both go if my dad let us stay in a hotel, but he said that it is too much money. My grandfather (My grandfather is who we are going there to see.) keep his house at 95 degrees and I'm not joking. There aren't even enough beds in his house! He can't hear a word that I say and I'm have strep right now so, I'm not going to talk any louder than I normally do. I really do not want to go up to Wisconsin (Mom said that she's staying here) so, how do I convince my dad to not make me go?
I rate 5's for anyone who tries (link)
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lol u could come to my house in minnesota! jk! Ok my advice would be try and talk your dad into looking on a hotel search enine that gives lower rates like hotels.com expidia.com or another one that i can't think of. most importantly tell your dad how much you want to see your grandpa and how you wan to enjoy it as much as possible. and if that doesn't work tell your dad (and i'm not joking about this) older people can't tell if its hot as much as younger peopel and haveing his house that hot is extreamly dangerous! ask your dad to turn on the a/c! hope i helped
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I hate my dad..I'm not joking. I honestly do and not just for some stupid reason.
My dad always is threatening my mom with a divorce and stuff she starts crying. I hate seeing her cry when she never even did anything to deserve this. He always is calling her horrible names and cussing at her and me. He hits her sometimes too..she almost called the police. He even hit me once..
I'm so scared of him and so is my mom and my brother. I haven't talked to any of them yet about this. Whenever I hear him yelling or something I'm usually in my room and I start crying because it really is starting to upset me. I can't even TALK to my own dad..whenever he says something to me all the horrible things that he has done to my mom and I in the past just flash back in my mind and I can't speak and I have tears in my eyes. Everytime I hear him screaming at my mom I just want to go down there and tell him to calm down and leave her alone but, I just can't..I'm too scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't talk to anyone in my family about this.
How do I help my mom and get my dad to stop yelling all the time? (link)
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I have never liked my dad either. It's hard to not like someone you're supposed to love. If he hits you and your mom a lot you should call the police. Even if he doesn't hit you and you're mom that much what he is doing is verbaly abusive and is just as bad. I would suggest you talk to your mom about it, how it makes you feel, what you want to happen, and tell her what her options are. I did that with my mom and her maternal insticts came over and she made my dad go away, she finally stood up to him and it worked, we are a lot happier now.
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