I AM A TEEN AGE GIRL WHO LIVE IN THE SUNNY CALIFORNIA. I KNOW ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE, BECAUSE I LIVE IT EVERYDAY. SO I KNOW ABOUT LIFE'S ISSUES AND DRAMA, WEATHER IT'S WITH FRIENDS OR WITH YOUR HOME LIFE. SO NEED HELP? HIT ME UP.
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm responsible and respectful. I don't drink, smoke, have sex, do drugs, or anything of the sort. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 4 years and have no interest in having one, I get exceptional grades, and I'm extremely focused on my schoolwork and acting career. The problem is with my father. This past winter, I met a guy in my drama class. I'm a freshman and he's a senior, I'm white and he's black. We have no interest in a relationship, but we are very good friends. I have alot of guy friends, and this was no different. I'm friends with this guy because I can relate to him. We both struggle with depression, have a love of acting, and we just get along great. He gets good grades and has a future. He's respectful to authority and gets along with everyone. We started talking on the phone. It was just general stuff-cooking, acting, music, that kind of thing. My father is kind of racist, which is stupid, i know. He thinks that a person shouldn't associate with a black person outside of work or school. He's being a hypocrite, since I know that he's had plenty of african-american friends. Anyways, my father (whom I have no respect for for several reasons and who doesn't live with me and hasn't since before i was in kindergarten) found out and now I'm not allowed to talk to any guys on the phone whatsoever unless its my boss or a male relative. He said he'd reconsider when I'm 16, but he's already said that he probably won't allow it until I'm 18. This is ridiculous-I've already told 3 guys this year that I wouldn't go out with them, and I dont want a boyfriend at all. I'm a responsible teenager and I simply want a little freedom. I never go anywhere with my friends, and I've never done anything to make them not trust me. My father gets mad if I say anything about my friends, or anything at all besides my grades and schoolwork.He constantly puts me down about my grades and schoolwork and makes fun of me, but i'm required to call him once a week and endure the rude remarks. I just want to be able to talk to my guy friends on the phone, and i think this is extremely unfair. He won't listen to my point of view at all. How can I get him to see things my way? (link)
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if your father is racist, then your going to have a hard time getting him to see it your way. what you should do, if you haven't already, is tell your father the truth. I had a similer problem with my dad, when he moved out. soon enough i tried all in my power to avoid him, because i didn't want him in my life. then one day when he tried to talk to me, i let him know, that the things he dose is destorying our relationship and my love towards him. you should do the same, let him know that you dont appriciate his put downs, and you know your a great responsible teenager. you shouldn't have to take his crap, espically if he's not living wiht you. so don't tell him, let him know. it might take him some time to relize it, but maybe it'll make him relize how stupid he really is being. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
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if you are underage the age of 18 then you really shouldn't be doing it. but if you are going to do it anywayz, or can't help yourself then the best thing to do is to talk to your mom about it, and let her know how you feel. it's normal for a girl's harmons to act up during teen years. be open with your mom and try to respect her opinion and answer. and remember if she says no it's only because she cares. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
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if your underage then you just shouldn't be doing it. there really is no explination for it. personally ive had a similer problem, but it did it because of family issues, even that it was no excuse. if you need help there are clinics that can help you and girl homes and even teen hotlines. dont be scared go and talk to a school canceler or an adult you trust for help. :) good luck
ms_crazy07
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