askmikelarose
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: Background info: Recently my dad has Started webcaming with "people" he has met online. He says that they are "guys" from other countrys that are nice nd he just talks with.

the other night i was sitting in the living room watching t.v && on my computor. my dad was also in the living room on his computor on webcam. He coverd the side of his face and I saw him blow the camra a kiss TWICE!. && the night before someone had sent him a kissy message the ones that make a kissy sound. I dont care what anyone thinks but I consider this cheating. weather its emotional cheating or actual sex cheating its still cheating.

Now im positive my mom doesnt know about this but I cant be the one to tell her.

Background info on my mom: Shes really old almost sixty has battled cancer for 6 years and if I tell her thiis She WONT be able to handle it i just know that....

Question: What do I do. I don't know how to handle this information. all I could do was cry. I was so mad that he would have the nerve to do that with me in the room. I dont even know if there is a right answer to what i should do but this has really emotionaly screwd with me. I have bad enough trust isues in relationships and now I just feel like theres absolutely no hope! what do i dooo please help.
Honestly, do not get involved in your parents relationship it really is not your problem. Well i mean its your problem, but getting involved is really not good. However you should confront your dad and tell him you know whats going on, and beg him not to lie, and explain to him how it feels and tell him he needs to be the one to tell your mom.

bio
mikelarose
Hey I'm Mikela(Muh-Kayla), and I'm a sophomore in high school. I'm really outgoing and talkitive. I'm a really laid back person, always down for a good time. I'm a really level headed person. My family is amazing. I'm a pretty easy person to talk to, and I love helping people with their problems, so holla at cha girl :)

Info
Website:
Gender:
Female

Location:
Texas

Occupation:
Student

Age:
16

Member Since:
March 22, 2009

Answers:
13

Last Update:
August 30, 2009

Visitors:
1746

Main Categories:







layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker