I'm 15.. i live in Alaska.. i used to live in Delaware.. i've been through a whole lot.. i think i've seen just about everything.. and i just broke up with my boyfriend.. we were going out for like a year and some months.. realy harsh.. i love giving advice.. not because it makes me feel important.. it's just always been instinct.. my friends used to call me the peace maker.. haha yeah.. so i've seen alot.. as well as been through a lot.. so i might be some help to you..
E-mail: krosseyedkow@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: i live in alaska.. im from Delaware tho
Occupation: i work at subway. go to WeSt HiGh
Age: 15
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Yahoo: xkill_baloox
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Member Since: November 24, 2004
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sry if its long but i really need help..
Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..
plz help me..
ps..me and my parents fite all the time.. (link)
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My mom has never hit me.. but i've seen it happen so many times.. I would say this.. Can i earn my trust back from you?? Say that you getting hit is NOT going to make anything better.. ask them if their parents hit them.. ask your dad why he would wanna hit his own baby.. Say that you would never touch your child, that you need respect and trust if they want it as well.. say that i don't deserve this.. and ask them if you think they deserve your trust if ur always slappin me? Ask them how are they helping you by slapping you.. thats the best i can do.. i know how it would feel.. i've seen my friends cry to me and tell me that their parents are abusing them.. if it's really that serious, then tell the police.. but if it's something that you can fix, then you should try that.. because you don't want to end up with foster parents.. who might be worse.. people that you don't like.. and it'll be so hard to ever see your parents again if you really love them..
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I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***
any ideas or insight would be much appreciated
thank you (link)
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I don't care how old this bitch is.. your grandma ?? she can shove that all up her ass.. My best friends gramma is like that.. she makes her feel like shit.. she pushed my friend down the stairs one time.. and said that she isn't worth a peice of shit because she smokes n drinks.. and her mom doesn't do a damn thing about it.. the best thing that i can say is, is that if this women is treating you like this.. if you need to yell at this bitch then you better get your point across.. don't let this women ruin your self esteem.. she's gunna drive you into doing more bad things.. just because you have had sex doesn't make you a whore/slut/hoe WHATEVER. no one ever deserves to call you that.. Ask your gramma if she did this to your mom and ur auntie.. cuz thats what it seems like.. cuz ur mom and auntie are on anti depressants... maybe gramma drove em crazy.. killing yourself wouldn't be the answer.. you would be running away from your problems.. You would approach God as a murderer.. do you want that?? i'll pray for you and your grandma.. maybe you should try to tell your grandma that your mistakes don't need to be shoved down your throat.. it'll make you insane.. just ask her to help instead of making your life hell.. tell her that you don't want to end up like your mom..
-meagan
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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?
Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com
- Kylie (link)
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Okay, well unfortunately i had something like this happen to me.. except it was a siblings friend.. was my stepdad.. well anyway, i felt the same way.. it took me so long to tell my mom.. i planned it out though.. i would wait until this guy is not in your house.. what i was afraid of, was that this guy would hurt you or your sister, but i don't know him.. so i don't know. But of course this guy can get in trouble.. think of R. Kelly.. but yeah.. i would defiantly tell somebody.. if your sister doesn't beleive you.. then she has a real problem.. i thought my mom wouldn't believe me.. but as soon as i told her.. his ass was in jail the next day.. the only hard thing about this.. is that you will have to explain to the police exactly was happened.. and you might not remember because you were four.. but they make you get into details.. which made me cry.. which made me feel like i was being interigated.. which i didn't like.. anyway.. of course you should tell your sister.. it would be wrong not to. don't be afraid.. i've been in your shoes.. except i was 11.. and i felt like i had no one.. i'll be there for you.
-meagan
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