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Okay so my friend asked me to go to wisconsin with her and her family this weekend and here i am all pumped up for it. I ask my mom and her answer is " NO." . Yup, thats all she says. NO. No reason to back it up. Which ticks me off might i add. She doesnt let me go anywhere. No concert,mall, or six flags. IM A FREEKIN TEENAGER FOR GODS SAKE. I am old enough to know not to go in strangers cars. I am old enough to know not to take "candy " from people i dont know. I AM OLD ENOUGH! She gets on my nerves. I have no clue what to do.
Oh, and shes those kind of moms who likes to IGNORE YOU while your talking which obviously donts help! UGHHHHHH. I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE!
thanks ill appreciate it.
depressed Deana. (link)
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you should just sit her down and tell her whats up. i know you say your old enough not to do such and such but does she know that your old enough and responsible enough? and mabye its not you she doesnt trust, its other people that she doesnt trust. my mom used to do the same thing to me all the time but then i started showing more responsiblity and now she lets me do almost anything. hope i helped.
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Okay, so I'm 15/f.
I'm a vegetarian for animal rights reasons ONLY
And I'm also on this quest to lose weight. Haha.
So, what bothers me is my mom and how my dad gets easily influenced by her words. Here's the story:
Since like 6 years ago or so, I've been an overweight little kid. But at the beginning of 7th, I lost a lot of weight, thus being a normal girl with a little bit of luggage here and there. And I've pretty much stayed the same until now. Well, my mom always talks about how I should lose a little more weight and how perfect and pretty I'd look if I would loose 10 more pounds and drop to 110lbs. I have been trying to lose those 10lbs but oddly, my mom contridicts what she wants me to do by what she says and does. She'd tell me to exercise in the mornings, and I do on and off [I know, I should keep it constant]. Then she'd tell me that I should start monitoring what I eat and the same day, she'd cook this big, big fattening meal. And if I don't finish it [because I'm full, thank you] my dad would comment on how I didn't finish and my mom would say in this "taunting" kind of childish way "It's becasue she doesn't want to get fat" or something like that. Does anyone know what I'm trying to say? And now my dad thinks I'm a vegetarian to lose weight. And he thinks I eat how much I eat because I want to lose weight. Blah blah blah. I no longer have reasons for doing what I do except "Because I want to lose weight" I'm really getting annoyed at how my mom acts and what she says and I'm annoyed with the whole"Because she doesn't want ot get fat" thing. How do I put it to her NICELY that I'm really starting to get annoyed when she does that??? (link)
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ok well first of all 120 lbs. is not fat. but your mom is probably telling you to loose more weight or trying to make you feel bad about loosing weight is because mabye shes a little overweight herself and she doesnt want you to look even better? just tell her straight up, say no thats not the reason im not finishing its just because im full. hope this helped
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my mom has been seeing her boyfriend for about 2 years now
i love him with all my heart
and he is like the father i never had
well they don't live with each other yet
an i really wish they did
so i called him[ my mom know i called him ] and told him
how i think it would make my mom very happy and less stressed if he moved in or they talk about buying a house and moving in with each other
well he thought for some weird reason
something was wrong with me just because i had a major break down the same day about how i think i am fat and i hate my body but that isnt why i wanted to call him.
anyway he is coming over today to talk to me
he thinks i need someone to talk to
which i dont because i already talked to my mom
and i am in the best mood now
so when he comes what should i say and do?
i mean i thought i explained myself perfectly on the phone (link)
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tell him thanks for the offer but you already talked to you mom about everything but you appreciate the offer.hope i helped
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I can't stand it when my mom talks to me. I think she is doing it purposely and I feel hurt and there are other bad feelings I feel. I cannot just tell her about it because she will just get mad. I can't stand it. It's been happening since I was 17. It's hard to describe but it's like she doesn't mind her own business. Like she wants to make me cry all the time. What am I going to do not come out when she is around but what if I need to. I don't get why she does this to me. help it' really hard for me. (link)
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Im sure she doesnt make you want to cry purposly. Mabye shes just talking to you more because shes afriad you might move out on your own and shes just talking to you more now because she might feel she wont be talking to you in the future.And when you say shes in my business mabye she just wants to know whats going on in your life. think of all the possiblities! hope i helped
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