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I'm new to this site so bare with me.

I've been a christian for almost 10 years, Active in a independent fundamental baptist church.

I have been married to my lovely wife Renee, for seven years with four beautiful children.
My two youngest children have Downs Syndrome.

advice

i was talking on my cell to a boy i'm not allowed to date (but am dating anyway) and my parents now have the call records and i'm afraid they're going to call him, and find out i've been seeing him against their wishes. should i tell the truth (and end up grounded until i'm 60) or say it's someone else? i have no clue what to do next? help!

TELL THEM THE TRUTH
I learned the hard way many time and trust me it is the only thing to do
I'm sure if you lie to them about this you've lied before about other things and been caught right?
don't you think things turn out easier for you when you tell the truth then when you lie?

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This year has been rough.
I gave up on my best friend after saving her
life for the third time due to her heavy
drinking, I couldn't handle protecting her like
I did anymore. She was my very best friend,
moving on hurt so bad.

My boyfriend that I love cheated on
me, so of course we broke up. His new girlfriend
happens to be the girl he knew I hated more
then anything.

My great friend, Michael stepped in.
He became my big brother, my support system.
He was the only one that got me through losing
everyone. Well, he started to like me. Once I
told him I wasn't up for that after everyone
broke my trust, he left too.

Now I have nothing.
I'm alone all the time, I have other
friends but none of them come close to
those three. How do I step back up and
get on with life?
I used to be so outgoing and full of
life, I always had plans and people who
loved me. Now, No ones here.

What can I do?

This might sound like and odd question but where is God in all of this?

Do you think He has abandoned you also or did you not stop to think,
He is right there! through all of you trials and suffering if you only ask Him to be He will be.
People may and will disapoint you but if you can trust in Christ, trusting others will be easier and more worth while in the future.

tomlinsonpr@yahoo.com

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My mom and Dad hate each other. My Dad is an ass and my mom always complain that I am just like him just because I agree with what he says. And it isn't because of any reason I just think that his ideas are smarter then hers. Like for example: i was doing my homework and i didn't know this answer so she said to just ask the teacher and he'll give me all the answers but my dad said I should look at the answers at the back of the book cuz then I'd try and see how i got the answers and then I'd get it. And then she told the whole family (aunts, everyone) that I like Dad more then her and now everyone hates me because I like my dad more then her and it's not even true! And she asked me to fix the remote but I said I didn't know how and I meant it and she yelled back, YOUR JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER! God! someone help me feel better because she's a bitch but I always cry and get depressed.

First issue with your question please stop disrepecting your parents by calling them names.
it only shows your stubborness that you got from them.

Sounds like you Mother has issues with your father and she cannot find a non-harmful way to vent them. Have you tried talking to her sometime about them. I know most parents don't want to share there problems with there children but, she already is and not in a good way.

You have to be patient and pick your words carefully. Some times it is better to stay quiet and pick your battles.

God willing, and with some prayer you can get through it.

lots of prayer
tomlinsonpr@yahoo.com

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my girlfriends mom caught me and her daughter having sex last weekend and totally went mad but now she wants to talk to me about it or i should write a letter the choice is mine...what should i say and what should i do

You might not like this,
but if you thought you were responsible enough to make decisions about having sex then, your responsible enough to talk to her about it.
She has he daughters best interest in mind. To me writing a letter about it would be seen as an insult.
If you care about the Girl you shoud respect the parents.

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