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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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OMG I'm so sorry. Tell your mom next time this happens say ' Mom I don't care what you think how I look I think I look nice so I'm going out like this your my mum ur suppose care for me not make me sombody I'm not. I don't want to be like dirt so stop.' if she doesn't ask a freind or faimly member near by if you can stay with them for awhile and tell y hope i helped
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For a musical I am doing with a lot of dancing, I need to wear character heels. My parents are "opposed" for some reason against my character heels because they think it's a health problem for me, even though the heel is only one inch and the whole thing is built for dancing in. They want to buy me other shoes, but I need to wear my character heels! What can I do to convince them? They are CONVINCED that their way of thinking is right without listening to me, too. (link)
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sit them down and tell them just that and if they don't say mom dad listen to me I listened to you now please listen to me tem then show the shoes maybe that will help
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this last month.. ive been aggrivating myself so much.. & my boyfriend has noticed it too;; and he tries to help but iuno.. he just makes me forget for a little while but then when we arent talking stuff comes back again.. i got this letter from my so-called "father" and ever since i got it it's been under my skin. i never wrote him back.. ive written about 100 letters to him and my brothers and havnt sent them.. never get the nerve..he said that was going to be his last time to try and tlak to me and if i didnt answer then it was going to be my turn to try basically..and then my mom started talking to yet another guy--- who lives in penn. where my "father" lives and now all of a sudden after 16 years "hey ash, lets go meet bill" (my father) im like wtf?! pisses me off a little.. and so now; she's making me meet him in the next 2- 3 weeks.. dont get me wrong, i want to meet him.. more then most i want to meet my brothers but.. for some reason id rather wait til i have my own money, car & can decide when and where for certain things ya know? plus.. all my mom does is shyt talk him when i do ask about him "white trailor trash" ;; "smokes & drinks all day.. has no job & no money"
what do i do... (link)
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it is your call it seems like your mom hates your dad and your dad wants tol talk to you why don't you give him a chance and send one letter or you can just say 'mom I want to wait till i have my own car money and I want to decied.' this may be hard but meeting your brothers might be fun if you want to go just to meet them thats fine i would too. but i can't help you that much though i'm sorry but with the advie i gave you i hoped i helped
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