My name is jocelyn and I think I'm good with giving advice and I would like to get better. I want to be a advice giver when I can get the chance so this will get me ready for it. :)
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i love my sister so much its unbelievable... its just that she is sooo mean to me. But when ever i try to be mean back shes just laughs and i feel really bad. Im so nice to her, like i respect her and do whatever she asks... but then she uses me and rats me out for everything! She even makes fun of me in public and i get really embarrased!!! I dont know what to do or the say but it really hurts me to be pushed around like this. She is older than me and is going to college next year. Im gonna miss her soo much.
i just need sum advice to not feel guilty and not be hurt by everything she says. (link)
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My sister has this same exact problem with my older sister. I've told her over and over to just ignore her and then my older sister will feel stupid about it and wont do it anymore. Ignoring her would really be the best thing to do. If you give into it you're just feeding the fire, you're making it bigger. When people like that like to fight they want you to fight back so that they can keep being mean to them. If you don't give her what she wants she'll stop doing it to you. Or when she's being mean to you just say three words, "That was rude" and walk away. She'll realize it was stupid and feel retarded for doing it and will stop. It may not seem like she feels stupid for saying it, but she does. Good luck, tell her how you feel before she leaves, unless you'll regret not telling her. You want to have a truthful relationship before she lives or else you'll be full of regret and it'll change your personality for sometime until she returns.
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